WideJuan76:
I don't know why but there are plenty down there. To them, the fatter that they could make their husband proved to other women from other families that they could take care of their men the best. I was telling my friend NYCBellyBlimp weeks ago about how I am most got recruited into their little group but I was too fearful because the males in the group were to the point of no return and they were no longer the men; they were just the FAT. There comes a time in a male feedees life when he has to make a choice of either he is going to eat so much that he can't have sex because there is too much fat between he and her and it's mostly his fat or he is going to have to stop. Those dudes only scared about the food and I like food but these dudes were Sitophiliacs.
EmilyW:
I am really intrigued. First, because it turned me on, second because I think I would love to write a story about this one day.
So tell me more!
WideJuan76:
I am from the North East near DC but raised between there and NYC so I had no idea about how southern women treated their male counterparts and I am talking about in traditional middle class to upper middle class areas as well as some working class environments in which catering to their men by fattening them was seen as a status thing to show off to other women in their group. I was only seen as a fetish for government types who didn't want friends to know they lusted after fat men in DC but in the South to have a male in some groups with a hanging gut made her the spouse of the month in places like New Orleans, South Carolina and some areas like Concord, NC. We would meet up once a month and the males who all meet up in the tv room to watch and talk about everything from sports to what shops to go to to get tshirts to fit their guts but I noticed over time that those dudes went way further than I did and most of them will never see the smaller side of three hundred pounds again.
This is absolutely fascinating - an unusual experience even on here. This kink can be very isolating due to it's unacceptability in the eyes of broader society, and although we can meet others like us via sites like this we're still basically refugees from social judgement. Our community (IMO) feels very new and modern and jargon-y.
Yet you've found a much older culture of relationships that are kind-of feedist, or are even full-blown feedist. A culture of traditional - even conservative - wives & gfs fattening their partners. No kink jargon anywhere, no shame - and no internet forums!
How widespread do you think this old culture is in the South - it sounds like you encountered it in multiple places? I'm guessing that the group you became part of was like an exaggerated version of this culture, where the women wanted to keep fattening their men beyond where other wives would stop. Women who would perhaps identify (secretly) as feeders if they'd grown up somewhere more fat-phobic in the NE. Did they admit that this was sexual for them in any way? Did you ask them? Or am I completely barking up the wrong tree lol?
Having get-togethers when they lived in different states sounds more like a self-selecting community, more like ours - rather than friends from the same town. How did they find each other, if they don't use sites like this? I wouldn't know where to begin without the internet! Did you meet the lady who introduced you to this whole other culture online - or did she just approach you in a bar with a very open attitude towards appreciating fat guys?
Sorry for all the questions, but you've kind of opened the door on a whole different world! A version of feedism that has deep roots and a history.
