Fattening others

I think most feeders just love the act of seeing everyone grow fatter so much that eventually it spills over to themselves. I know after years of being a feeder my own feedee side is finally coming out. Especially when I have gorgeous fat women wanting to see my own fit figure turned fat it becomes hard to resist.

Since I've come to FF, I've found a lot of people (mostly men) who started out as feeders and either became mutual gainers or strictly feedees.

I'm a feeder, but I started off as a gainer. When I see my feedee pig out, I know what he's feeling because I've felt it. But I don't miss it because I've already finished my journey. Plus making him fatter feels so much better than anything I did to myself.

But most people haven't gone that route. I think they see their feedee enjoying their hedonism and crave that for themselves. Then that 5 or 10 lbs they planned on becomes 50 and growing.

We all have various sexual tendencies, caused, no doubt by genetic and environmental factors that differ from on individual to the next. Feedism is one such tendency. Autosexuality is another. Feedees are feedists with an extra dose of autosexuality .

So, I don't know if you are aware, but autosexual is a real sexual orientation:

www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Autosexual

I think the term "self love" or "self attraction" is what you mean. Finding yourself sexually arousing is a very normal part of life. It's not an inherently autosexual trait.