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Whats turns you off

mollybloom wrote:
Not proud to admit this, but I once broke up with a guy after seeing his unkempt hobgoblin feet, *shudder*. Feet are KEY!

Beyond the physical: anyone who seems unwilling or unable to feel small in the world, reflect, and laugh at their foolishness, even after pain.

God is that too serious? Hardly first date chat, is it?

People change though. I've done/been all the things listed above (save beardy/smelly.. and my feet are nice).. I've lost love to them! But we move through, don't we?

Still. If you don't look after your feet, I'll lose my lady boner!

xxx



What do you define as 'hobgoblin' feet?

Yay for being able to laugh at ourselves... only thing that keeps me sane some days! smiley
13 years

Whats turns you off

People who are inconsiderate, vain or arrogant definitely turn me off. I like people with good personal hygiene. Maybe this goes without saying, but I don't think that I could make things work with a skinny girlsmiley
13 years

Whats turns you off

Apart from the usual bad hygiene and people who are wishy-washy, my biggest turn-off is people who want to argue or debate anything. I know it isn't as big of a deal as other things, but I want to spend time with someone having a good time, not arguing about anything and everything.
13 years

Whats turns you off

Insecurity.
13 years

Whats turns you off

Hygiene is a pretty good one, at least try to look you are putting in some effort and care about yourself.

But for me it's smoking and tattoos on certain parts of the body. I can't stand smokers, go kill yourself away from me please. And the smoke that you breathe out is twice as bad and I don't want it in me. I wouldn't have a problem is drinkin was like smokin, but go about spraying alcohol on people.

And tattoos on breasts and booties completely turn me off. I don't know why though.
13 years

Whats turns you off

It's alive....ALIVE!!

turn offs:

people that aren't open minded enough to accept other peoples life styles and condemn them for it.
people that feel they need to tell others how they should live.
smoking cigarettes.
having a penis.
people that lie to please others
12 years

Whats turns you off

Arrogance is a big turn off for me, i don't mind confidence but when people act like they are superior or talk down to others, i just want to give them a backhand.
Being unable to compromise is another. In my personal opinion a relationship should be an equal partnership and i cannot stand people who are incapable of at least compromising a little.
Lacking hygiene is also another big turn off for me, i don't mind people being scruffy. Since i'm guilty of having off days when it comes to dressing the part. But body odour and other general unpleasantness is completely disgusting to me.
12 years

Whats turns you off

I've mentioned loads already, but felt these two needed saying as well. Manipulation and control freeks, although to be fair these are more common amongst men.
12 years

Whats turns you off

My biggest turn off?

Annoying ignorance.

I used to work at a skate rink as a 2nd job and, I tell you, a lot of the teens on Friday and Saturday night just drove me insane. I did make friends with a lot of them and we added each other on FB just to keep in touch incase the rink opened again. But, now I'm slowly deleting them as I see updates, daily, three times a day:

"I wish I lived on da Jersey Shore wit Snooki. YOLO"

Congrats, you just got deleted. Am I against pop culture? No freaking way. Am I against teenagers being corrupted and feeding into the death of our society? Indeed.


Anyways, that's really about it. I'm pretty easy going otherwise.

Oh, and while I support people's opinions and ideas etc. I hate when they bad mouth others people's beliefs and opinions....
12 years
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