Lifestyle tips

In a woman it is beautiful at the waist and under the belly. In a man with a large gut, the only way is to throw his belly over his pants. Either the pants fall or the man looks like a clown or there is not enough size.

Definitely over the belly.
Jeans are real pants reserved for work or making a good impression.

I'm not bothering with real pants for anyone I'm comfortable enough with to wear them under my belly.