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Cartoon for me, my revelation was the totally spies and the film l'amour extra large.

As a kid I crushed on a BBW school bus driver in elementary school. She was cute, fat, and handled her bus like a boss. I loved to sit up front and watch her jiggle in the driver's seat as she worked the pedals, shifter, and the lever that operated the door!

Also I used to always check the Sunday newspaper ads for stores like K-mart and JC Penney which showed plus-size women modeling clothing. Spring and summer were best, since they were modeling swimsuits, tank tops, and shorts.

Personally, I don't view being an FA or my love for ssbbw as a fetish; it is a preference in the same way as people liking blondes, or brown eyes etc. :-)

I was always attracted to big boobs but I know exactly when I knew I liked fat women and what triggered this in me. I was 13 and walking through the woods alone found a porn mag which had a plump woman in it. She was sitting and leaning back and I still remember her belly rolls and heavy breasts. The photo had a caption "I'm a big girl with a lot of sweet inner space t fill" From that moment everything made sense! I've been an FA ever since. This awakening was in the early seventies and it was rare to find ssbbw or bbw but whenever porn mags were passed round at school I'd look out for the fat ladies or stories. There was one story where a fat women smothered to her boobs in baby lotion and rubbed them over the guy - this was amazing for me at my young age! Always have been and always will be an FA.

For me it's both a preference and a fetish, if that makes any sense.

Seeing Violet blow up in Willy Wonka when I was a kid. Probably the first time I was really turned on.

Then not until later in life about college age I started to notice and appreciate plump women.

As young as 8, I think. I was chubby and therefore bullied by colleges, siblings and parents. But I resisted I always loved my soft body, to see and to feel it.

I'm not a gainer, but fell head over heels when I discovered a former coworker had deliberately gained 200 lbs or so. I was stunned in a good way, I let her know it, and she responded positively. Too bad she was already taken!

I was misled into it by a partner I trusted. Dude literally tried to make me fatter instead of having a conversation with me about his fetish. I found it on his laptop along with a tumblr blog where he had admitting to purposely trying to make me gain weight while making me feel insecure because of it... Worst introduction ever...but the good side of it is that I was introduced to people who Im friends with till this day, and I developed confidence I hadnt had because I was always soo insecure about my weight. Thanks loser

I put on 20 lbs of relationship weight. When it got to the point where I needed new clothes I told my boyfriend I was going on a diet. He said he liked to see me getting bigger and it just spiraled from there. I am bigger than I ever could have imagined and I mostly love it.

Did you have any women/men in your life that were mentors or teachers that were large people?[/quote]

Interesting you should ask about that, because a couple years ago it dawned on me that my grandpa was super morbidly obese. He lived in a hospital and was bedbound, and he died when I was 5. While he was alive though he was my favourite person ever, he loved me dearly and my father often shipped me off to the town my grandparents lived in. I never thought it was weird, it just… was, but now that I think about it there’s probably a connection. (Something about that makes me feel uncomfortable and I don’t know why lol)