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I mean its rare even without all the diagnoses you listed. Since this fetish is sorta hidden and many who are into it are not on these websites either.

Everything depends, about what part does ur mental health issues, paraphilias take up in your life or what are your standards like.

Everything is possible, but it s really really difficult. First thing it depends from where you live, then...how much closeted you are.
Nothing impossible, but very a few percent of success