Munchies:
For those not in the know, the "soft girl" trend is a Gen Z lifestyle/aesthetic that is a response to and rejection of the girl boss lifestyle/aesthetic.
While the girl boss is all about being cool, dominant, and self-sufficient, the soft girl is cute, preppy, and pampered. The idea behind being a soft girl is that life sucks, so it's best to find someone to take care of you instead.
To answer the OP's question, I will say that some feedees certainly ascribe to the soft life, either in whole or in part. But that has less to do with being a feedee and more to do with traditional gender roles.
Stevia:
I think I would kinda consider myself as so. But I am pretty much fine on my own terms. 😅
Munchies:
Sounds more like you like being pampered.
The soft girl believes in "the divine feminine". Which is essentially embodying all of the stereotypical "feminine" traits. They look for "provider men" who will take care of all their needs and give them a pampered life. In exchange, the soft girl will look beautiful for him and love him.
Some also agree to take care of the kids while others would rather hire a nanny.
The idealized lifestyle for a soft girl would be that of a wealthy man's spoiled housewife.
Stevia:
Oh sorry about that. Forget that I said anything.
Munchies:
Girl, you ain't got nothing to apologize for.
I only know about this because I spend a lot of time in intersectional feminist spaces and deal with these people all the damn time.
I'm not going to say they are all mean POS, because they are not. Some of them are lovely. However, while I can understand where they are coming from, I can't condone it. It's a bad deal for everyone involved.
The aesthetic is cute tho. Love that for them.
For those not in the know, the "soft girl" trend is a Gen Z lifestyle/aesthetic that is a response to and rejection of the girl boss lifestyle/aesthetic.
While the girl boss is all about being cool, dominant, and self-sufficient, the soft girl is cute, preppy, and pampered. The idea behind being a soft girl is that life sucks, so it's best to find someone to take care of you instead.
To answer the OP's question, I will say that some feedees certainly ascribe to the soft life, either in whole or in part. But that has less to do with being a feedee and more to do with traditional gender roles.
Stevia:
I think I would kinda consider myself as so. But I am pretty much fine on my own terms. 😅
Munchies:
Sounds more like you like being pampered.
The soft girl believes in "the divine feminine". Which is essentially embodying all of the stereotypical "feminine" traits. They look for "provider men" who will take care of all their needs and give them a pampered life. In exchange, the soft girl will look beautiful for him and love him.
Some also agree to take care of the kids while others would rather hire a nanny.
The idealized lifestyle for a soft girl would be that of a wealthy man's spoiled housewife.
Stevia:
Oh sorry about that. Forget that I said anything.
Munchies:
Girl, you ain't got nothing to apologize for.
I only know about this because I spend a lot of time in intersectional feminist spaces and deal with these people all the damn time.
I'm not going to say they are all mean POS, because they are not. Some of them are lovely. However, while I can understand where they are coming from, I can't condone it. It's a bad deal for everyone involved.
The aesthetic is cute tho. Love that for them.
Well I appreciate the response!
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