Gaining

confusedgirl wrote:
No, thank you. I do not want to be force-fed by anyone. However I do like videos of men gently and tenderly feeding their women and rubbing their expanding bellies with great anticipation. That's totally awesome and I'd love to be fed and fattened that way.

Critters wrote:
Oh man... I've had this fantasy ever since I was a teenager!
I'm currently working on a comic that explores this theme.

The funny thing is that IRL, I'm rather a quiet, retiring sort who doesn't usually take aggressive control of situations unless I have to. But I totally fantasize about having a captive guy under my total control, exploiting whatever weaknesses and temptations I can find in him to make him bigger and bigger, pushing him to go that much further every time I force food on him.

The progression as his belly and body expand... man, that really gets me going!

I've even gone so far as to look up info on appetite stimulants like marijuana/Marinol, drugs that have weight gain or metabolism slowdown as a common side effect (way too many to mention, but Risperdol, SSRI-class antidepressants, and prednisone/dexamethesone get honourable mentions), and the effects of prolonged inactivity on the bones, joints, muscles, and organs and how to counteract the problems that can arise from the body being inactive.

Yeah, I'm a twisted little critter.

Thing is, I doubt I'd ever take it from the realm of fantasy into reality, since it would involve some very unethical things. While some of my fantasies are totally evil, I'm an ethical humanistic type, and I would never hold someone as an involuntary captive and force changes on his body that he didn't want. Especially ones like forced inactivity, which can result in lasting changes and impairments to muscles and joints and can cause painful things like bedsores. I don't want to cause someone pain and disability.

That said, if I met someone who likes to explore these themes in totally voluntary, safe play, I'm sooooooo there! Especially if the gains are real!

weighting4u wrote:
As long as I can remember, this has been a fantasy for me. Not being force fed, but kind of tricked somehow, or not knowing my boyfriend was trying to fatten me up, but just getting really fat under his influence and slowly realizing how excited he was by it. There is something in the struggle to fight gaining weight that is part of the turn on. That's why the intentional weight gain, or as someone mentioned, being "lovingly fed with gentle belly rubs" is really not for me. Submitting to it, going along, wanting to be fat, ruins it for me. That's just me.

markpearson89 wrote:
My evil feeder fantasy involve an attractive woman feeder who progresses from a loving effectionate hostess to an emotional munipulator and finally (as i'm approaching immobility) a forcefull dominatrix. The kind of woman who feeds you just a few more bites at the end of a somewhat large meal where you've already eaten all you can. Just enough to strech your stomach that tiny amout it takes to increase your appetite a little each time. Using "it's not enough to put away and we can't waste it, so eat up." as a cover, but she always makes a serving more you can realistically eat without a little push. Then as you notice your getting a little heavier and become reluctant, she pays the emotional card like, "but you love my cooking...I made it just for you..." with a pout, then a kiss on the cheek after you cave in and eat." Then finally as you're approaching obesity and maybe even considering leaving to save whats left of your social life, she becomes more forcefull in her approach. Seducing you into rediculous binges, rewarding you with sexual favors for completing your meals, late night and early morning suprize force feedings for insubordination. Along with a smug attitude because she knows no matter what your objections are you'll always be to full and tired and as soon as your not you'll crave the food and sex. Occasionally she'll deprive her victim, and they'll beg for it.



Yeah i'm a weirdo.

Garfield wrote:


I like it...

Northern wrote:
Even though I have been always a slender guy, (actually I am at my heaviest and softest right now, because quitted sports) my biggest turn-on have been for a few years to get dominated and controlled by a female feeder. Who is a little bit evil and teases me a lot during my weight gain and daily (day-to-day increasing) struggles.

In situations like this, when I would be laying on a couch stuffed and ask for
her to pass the remote control because I'm now too lazy and fat. Then she would make me to get up and totally out of breath to get the remote just from a few feets away. After that she would bring me snacks and offer those to me and tease I shouldn't eat those etc. Mmm.

sugarplum33 wrote:
Mmmm evil feeder ❤️

otherland78 wrote:


What does that number mean ? some sort of code to get your phonenumber ;-)