Extreme obesity

I understand that you do some of those things at work, and that presumably you like caring for your patients. Maybe you get off slightly on the power dynamic and feeling needed by them too? Perhaps that's even why you became a nursing assistant in the first place?
I really don't know.

But I do know that you're a feeder - the most extreme feeder I've ever come across. You have this kink BAD. And surely it's not the same feeling at your day job as when you're caring for your feedee, privately? Looking after an immobile live-in feedee is a huge commitment on your part, and must take a great deal of effort (especially straight after working your day shift). You do it because you love it - I'm guessing nothing gets you off like it. Isn't their ever-increasing neediness part of that for you, something you encourage? Bottle-feeding them like a giant baby, diapering them to encourage them not to leave their bed before full immobility even sets in? I get that it's not romantic for you, but surely it is a deep personal desire?

Seeing a feedee live out their deepest desires, the desires some can not admit to themselves, is a thrill. Seeing a feedee completely dependent on me and needing me in every way is a turn on much greater then sex. But that’s just me

Thanks, that's what I wanted to know - how it makes you FEEL.

No judgement. Not that you care what others think anyway

You keep doing whatever you need to do to fully satisfy yourself and feel fulfilled in you life. Safe in the knowledge that you're also helping someone else achieve the exact same level of pure (if unusual and extreme) happiness. Good luck with your next relationship (or whatever you call it).

"It just amazes me that people are begging me to change their life forever. I wish I knew why men wanted this so bad and to a extreme that can never be undone"

I've been thinking about this a lot, about just how such an extreme, unreasonable and even fatal desire can exist, one which is so far outside what most people would ever want irl even within this community. I'll email you as I don't think some of it belongs on a site like this.

There is no weight limit for diapers. There is an approximate waist size limit. Anything over a waist size of 100 inches, it’s easier to go to bed pads. Most of the time when that large, the feedee will be bed bound anyways. By then, you will need a Hoyer lift to move them.

At what point does moving become difficult and at what point does it move into immobility ?

In my experience, they are so hungry by the time they are immobile, that keeping them full and comfortable is a 24/7 job.

How do you figure out when you want to take care of a feedee?

It’s more of a gut feeling. When I meet in person, I am honest from the beginning and watch the reaction and let it happen. They are free to leave whenever, although all have stayed longer then most would expect.

You own their income and their property and if they want to leave they are too obese to get out of bed and not need help. They are your slaves when they decided to gain weight. What kind of freedom is that? I see they have no option to leave and you say that these people are just work. Is this so or am I wrong?