Rachelduncan wrote:
Jumping in late here!
I consider myself a feeder, but I tend to keep it to the realm of fantasy/role play because of my unrealistic (IMO) expectations and desires. Although I LOVE big guys (my ideal man is very much of the "bear" type), I don't specifically dig fat guys. I think I'm more of a "stuffer" than a "feeder" - does that make sense? I want a man who can really pack it away, and I want lots of belly play afterwards, but I am not so in to weight gain & fat play. So you do the math and see my predicament. Either I find the Perfect Guy who is just huge and burly and has a nice belly, who can eat a tonne but also works out a lot and keeps up muscle, or I keep feeding to the realm of fantasy and fiction where I can truly sculpt my man.
If anyone wonders what I mean (and is interested in fantasy/role play) you can check out my stories. Um, I'm new here and don't know the rules well - I could link to outside sources or pm links to anyone interested.
I don't think your expectations or desires sound anymore unrealistic than anyone else's on this site to be honest.
Seems like you are after the "beefy" look, muscle, but with soft fat and a belly rather than all rock hard.
I've seen people into that stuff on Deviant art, both guys and girls, sure it may not be the stereotypical extreme here of "fat" or "thin", but it's still a perfectly valid body type to be into.
Seriously, how many guys here are after just a skinny girl with a bloated belly? It's another body type that isn't easy to achieve naturally, but there is alot of guys and girls interested in it.
I hope you find your dream guy and enjoy living out all of your fantasises with him.

Also, feel free to link to anything as long as it doesn't involve money like paysites or online wishlists.