Extreme obesity

Yeah, even before I weighted myself and saw how much I've gained in the last few months, I noticed sitting with my legs crossed wasn't as comfortable...

I've definitely noticed that too, usually when I'm sitting at my desk I cross one or both of my legs as a comfort thing but it's slowly becoming less comfortable as my legs are now pressed firmly against the armrests. I also work as a wheelchair technician so I'm sitting on the floor for a lot of the day and it's starting to hurt my lower back so I have to stand up to stretch very often

In fantasy, yes, all the way up to the point where standing up requires a lot of effort and preparation, and several tries.

In reality, no. Well, maybe if she was athletic and got moderately overweight, and overestimates her capabilities and ends up winded, yes, that can be hot in real life too, so maybe, a little.

I'm more of a Boberry-fan, liking someone to be as mobile as possible for her weight. Or the other side of it, to exercise and be healthy, to be able to be the most fat for the same amount of desired mobility.

I discovered velcro shoes, so I don't have to tie shoe laces anymore.
It might become fashionable for larger men to wear monks habits, which would do away with having to put a belt thru the loops, just wrap a rope around the waist.

Kaftans are a thing

For me personally, always a turn on and not only that, it's like an extra buzz of encouragement. The limitations I experience - current and new - are a huge part of what drives me. I know that seems broken and not exactly sensible but I live for it. All of my personal goals and targets are pretty much focused around my limitations, for some reason.

Im a lifelong encourager and admirer of the obese form. Thinking about this topic has been obsessively picked apart by my brain for many years while parsing the differences between the fantasy aspects that turn me on vs the reality im willing to live with in a partner.

A lot of feeders or wannabes state they WANT an immobile feedee but they havent processed past the fantasy to realize what that actually means in terms of finance, health and other day to day living, up to and including the struggles of wiping an ass and changing soiled bedding that their partner cant move off of.
I have put the thought into it and the reality is that although i can fantasize a pile of fat on a bed with a feeding tube pumping calories into a body fit for nothing else but storing more fat, it is just that, a fantasy.

I have also had hours of frank discussion with chatters and my growing partner to be sure what i want for them is the same as their goal.

What weve agreed is both a turn on and a realistic goal.
Limitations and restrictions are hot as hell.
Mobility issues are hot as hell.
Crippling obesity is erotic.
Health issues not directly impacting their ability to get out and enjoy life as an obese person is hot.
Broken furniture, clothing issues, finding places with access to use them that accomodate super obese bodies is hot.
95% dependancy on me as a caretaker is hot for both of us.
Toiletting issues and other intimate body care dependency on me to help with or clean up after due to their restricting body mass is erotic and intimate.
So long as they are still somewhat mobile.

Would you clarify some, please.

Only to a degree. I love it when people are too full to move. And waddling because of how fat you are is adorable.

But I'm an athletic person who loves to go on long walks. If you can't keep up with a stroll, I'm taking your ass to the gym.

wow, this thread has a long history! my previous response is apparently 4 years ago - so time for some new perspective, i think.

i gained a bunch of weight since my last post and over that time i've experienced some new limitations, and i am also with a new partner, which has changed my perspective, too. i gained up to a top weight of about 475, although i've lost some weight since then (about 450 now).

there are a lot of limitations that have been hot. little things, like being to wide to get close enough to the kitchen counters to reach the upper shelves. i get teased about that regularly, which is kind of hot.

my partner is pretty fit, and the contrast between us is really nice, and her ability to easily dominate me, just by being more flexible and limber than me, is very hot. the limitations it has created in our sex play has actually been very hot, too.

the limitations in standing, walking, not fitting in chairs, and just getting through the day are the nuisance problems which i can live with by i don't enjoy them at all. i've had to lose some weight for health concerns recently, and i am definitely not enjoying the food limitations (mostly missing beer!).