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It devolved from a discussion of fit high school graduates going on to become obese office workers, to a discussion of the United States devolving from its founding principles of liberty and self-sufficency to the rise of nanny-state authoritarianism.

Come to think of it, today's America may very well be the perfect metaphor for what happened to those once trim and fit HS grads!

Maybe once the political left finishes crippling our country, we can revisit this discussion and draw parallels to obesity-induced immobility.

Lmao at this nerd

So here’s where I try to answer this thread ignoring the political stuff because as a moderate I think the left and right are BOTH fools.


Hmm… well as far as from my experience, some of the women that I knew coming out of high school pretty much look the same as the last time I’ve seen them. Some who became a parent might have put on some pounds but I would barely notice it. They also have been some who have trimmed down quite a bit. But it’s not like I was really attracted to them at first. 😅

But hey that’s all what I know. Their might be some who did gotten more plus size as they got older, but High School is nothing but a distant memory of mine now.

I love how the rights of my people are part of crippling my country.

Love that for me.

dude has a ruination fetish talking about how America is so bad these days 😂 ironic

Tell me how it isn't?

"America is a nation in decline."

This is a direct quote from President Donald J. Trump, with whom millions of patriotic Americans agree.

Why is this thread still open?

No idea. Everyone else moved on.

It's really sad. He could be doing anything with his time, but no. His only joy is to be angry.

I can't imagine a more tragic existance.

America is Great it has a few problems but the general trend is towards progress and inclusion regardless of race gender religon and that scares people like you because your status as a person is threatened when your not on top you can only thrive when you can bully and threaten. Donald Trump just plays into your fears for votes but he obviously and clearly doesn’t agree with you.

As one of those high school athletes who moved on to office work, I'd just like to explain that I'm loving now having moved into obesity and heading for really obese. Yeah, I get the revenge / karma angle, but who's to say those fatter women are unhappy about it?

I did 8 sports in high school and college, some of them varsity. After college, I continued with sports including masters sports. I'm 6' tall and generally weighed 135-140 lbs as a young adult. I was underweight and solid lean muscle. If I hit my thigh, nothing moved. Back then I loved that.

As I grew older, in stages, I grew to 155 ("normal" weight) as a healthier weight to get pregnant, then, older, to 170 where I plateaued at only 15 lbs over normal weight. With 6' height, it wasn't too noticably different. I worked in an office, but was always on the move, in a high stress, high travel job. So I didn't really gain weight.

Then, a hormone med mixup led to my going to 200 lbs. After that, I discovered my appreciation of massive obesity. I've always liked big men, but now I also appreciate heavy women's beauty and femininity. I noticed too that my face was prettier heavy.

So now I'm trying to put on huge weight because I want to see what I'll look like and how I'll feel at each stage. And how my experience of femininity and sexuality will change as well. I've gotten to 240 lbs with a lot of struggle to put on and keep the weight. It's hard won. So I'm now 100 lbs more than that high school and college athlete.

I can't wait to hit 300, 350, probably 400, and maybe beyond. It's a whole new experience of life. And yeah, I'm seeing some of the downsides, but I still love being fatter. I'm happy when I jiggle, sway, and have to waddle a bit. I like feeling my shirt pushed out by my belly and maybe it's not quite covered on the bottom. I used to pull it down, as being tall, that's always been a problem. Now, I leave it and secretly enjoy it, and wonder if any FAs are also enjoying seeing that. I don't feel fat enough yet. I want to be wide and pudgy, soft, and rolling, curvy and rounded. To me, I feel so much more feminine.

It was a mindset adjustment for sure. But now, I see heavy, curvy, or very obese women and I appreciate their beauty. I love the big men I see too. But if I see a svelte lean athletic woman, now she seems too skinny and boney to me. I feel sorry she's not heavier and curvier. I understand her choice and work to maintain her physique, but I've now made a different choice. And I'm working to gain so much more!

And I'm loving it, every step of the way! I love the feeling of my soft and silky fat. I love being curvy and rounded, even when that's not the coveted by society hourglass shape. Now when I grab my thighs, they are too thick, I can't get my hand around them any more. I used to have smallish breasts, grown some from breastfeeding. My hands were bigger than my breasts. Now, my hands look small compared to my breasts after gaining. It's all good.

So some of those office women who got heavy may be enjoying it, secretly or not. And BTW, I work at home now for my own business. I probably couldn't get so fat if I were still in the office. No time to eat, so much running around, and you can't lay around with food coma in the office. LOL