Morbidly A Beast:
I think there’s probably creeps who think fat people are vulnerable but then are btfo’d and sorely mistaken when they try their moves on people
Munchies:
I wish that it were that simple.
The fact of the matter is that a lot of fat women have internalized fatphobia. So, unfortunately, that can make some of them more vulnerable to manipulative, abusive people. They think this is the best it gets for them, so they end up tolerating things that they shouldn't have to tolerate.
That said, there are plenty of fat women who have enough self-respect to weed out most of these creeps. Sometimes the slyer creeps fly under the radar, so that will only get you so far.
Morbidly A Beast:
I dont think that predatory behavior is exclusive to men women can have it too it’s fucked up regardless how you pose it.
Its just for whatever reason only men are weirdos online
This is true. And I give them the same energy I do male creeps. However, this specific behavior is much more common in this space from men due to how men are socialized.
That said, the only reason I brought this up is because this thread was originally shitting on women who don't have a fat fetish in fat fetish spaces and want money.
Due to how gender roles work, you're not going to find a lot of men doing this - especially cishet men. However, you will find score of men (especially cishet men) come into these spaces because they think fat women are easy abuse targets.
I come across men like this all the time. It's really scary - especially when they pretend to be doms.
Since people like these men are dangerous and deadly, I wanted to see if these misogynists would hold the same energy for them as they did the "money whores" they dispise. They did not. Nok was the only person to comment on this, and he wasn't part of the group bashing women.
