Gaining

I think many experience this kind of switch. I know I did with my ex. I think most people kind of swing both ways on this -- and on other preferences as well.

I think there may be more female feedees or FFAs than we could ever imagine, but societal pressures make this a taboo subject, and many stay in the closet.

Don't know if I've posted in here yet but I'm one.

It's not much better on our end, all the fatties live too far away, or in other countries...

I don't drive and flying costs money I don't have, it's like the fat gods are punishing us.

I'm used to being the outcast so I'll gladly take some 300-400 pound fattie over some ripped walking gym ad any day.

Most women are afraid you might be some serial killer on the loose so naturally the defences go up. Also everyone tells you that people on the internet are bad and meeting them in person is going to get you kidnapped or killed, even that internet friends aren't real friends because you met them online. My Baby Boomer parents are notorious for this train of thought.

Sick of every potential feedee relationship crashing and burning for the same reasons over and over again.

Don't quit. Don't ever quit. She is out there....

Keep yourself open to the possibility that she may be someone you know who doesn't even know what she wants -- yet. Just be open to people, and maybe you will find her.

Don't grow bitter and cynical. Grow bold, and meet more people (men and women), put yourself out there as a force in real life, and maybe something wonderful will happen.

I hope so.

You poor dear... I wish I were 20 years younger.

Posting is a good way to get past that...good job!