Gaining

I always considered myself a Foodee/Feeder/Encourager.Until I met my Love.We met elsewhere under completely different circumstances.I love to eat she loves to cook.I'm happy being big she loves me big.We both enjoy the idea of me being bigger.We were aprox. 1000 miles apart.Now we live together in just over month I've added about 1/2 an inch to my waist.So there are FFA's out there you just need to take the time & be patient.Even distance can't keep true love apart if it's meant to be.

My lovely lady started out as the feedee... But now I'm the feedee and she's the feeder. She loves cooking. And gets very excited about me needing her and depending on her...

Sorry it took me so long to comment on this thread it's just that, as a female encourager, I couldn't get to my laptop because of all the willing feedees/bhms/fanmail I had to deal with first......

Far away hills, I'm afraid. It's frustrating for everyone because it does narrow the net when you're looking for; someone you click with, who has the same kink (rarer than you'd think),lives nearish. Couple this with the fact that initial contact is often an online format like this and LOTS of people (I'd like to hope myself included) are much easier to talk to in real life than in a html text box.

I think we all need to just start chatting up complete strangers with feedist chat up lines and see what happens. "Do you eat here often?..."

I think many experience this kind of switch. I know I did with my ex. I think most people kind of swing both ways on this -- and on other preferences as well.

I think there may be more female feedees or FFAs than we could ever imagine, but societal pressures make this a taboo subject, and many stay in the closet.

Don't know if I've posted in here yet but I'm one.

It's not much better on our end, all the fatties live too far away, or in other countries...

I don't drive and flying costs money I don't have, it's like the fat gods are punishing us.

I'm used to being the outcast so I'll gladly take some 300-400 pound fattie over some ripped walking gym ad any day.

Most women are afraid you might be some serial killer on the loose so naturally the defences go up. Also everyone tells you that people on the internet are bad and meeting them in person is going to get you kidnapped or killed, even that internet friends aren't real friends because you met them online. My Baby Boomer parents are notorious for this train of thought.

Sick of every potential feedee relationship crashing and burning for the same reasons over and over again.