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Where are all the 40+ folks hiding?

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Glitter Jelly   Canada
Joined 2 years
Ayumi Orihime:
Maybe we are not hiding... but just hide our ages well? 😂

I'm 42, but most people estimate me to be somewhere between 25-35.

EIIe:
Same!

46, and most assume I’m in my 30s.

I also have a young playful demeanor and I tend to connect best with those in their 30s. I’m also a cougar and will hook up with those in their 20s, keeps me young!

I didn’t come to this fetish until a few years ago so I’m still a baby.


Same situation here, I'm 45 and dating a beautiful 33 years old guy. 😉

People give me 35 at most. I self identify as agender and ageless.
10 months

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Corpulentiful   United States
Joined 3 months
40 here, I can’t believe it’s been almost 20 years since this place started I remember as an 18, year old just yahoo groups, dimensions magazine that it! The rock shots bulging beauties calendar was another source of inspiration. Man, this is gonna be my 20th time being on and off the site lol can’t quit it !
3 months

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MarkSeanDavis17   Canada
Joined 4 months
In my 40s here! Not hiding! Always open to chat with folks in the same age group!
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Newenglander   United States
Joined 13 years
Mid-40s here. Met my wife on a now-defunct BBW dating site over 20 years ago. This community has come a long way since then.
3 months

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SATXfeedee   United States
Joined 11 years
42 here in Houston, been coming to this website FOREVER, used to go to feeder.co.uk
3 months

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Fattboy325   United States
Joined 10 months
Just turned 60 in January, living near Cleveland. I've been on and off of here a few times, mostly hung out in the aforementioned Yahoo groups and FetLife.
3 months

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Torchcacti   United States
Joined 2 years
Fellow oldFat clocking in.
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Spuffy   Chile
Joined 2 months
41 here 😅
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Topofthescales78   United States
Joined 4 years
Going on 47 here
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GrowingLoveHandles   United States
Joined 11 years
We’re here, but we are slow to respond. Personally, I’m too busy adding to my middle-age spread right now.

I only have a year and a half until I hit 50.
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