Um. There was no call whatsoever to be shouting at us for disagreeing with you.
The point being made by the women [and men, though you didn't notice] you disagree with you is that the 'ultimate ssbbw' might not be defined ONLY by her body.
I like to think that the men I date like me for many reasons, not just one. And I prefer some of them to be about things you can't poke with a stick.
14 years