Gaining

I know what you mean, my mum has always been bigger and struggled with her weight going back and forth, i'd always hate it when she'd get skinny.

Once when she was complaining about being fat i hugged her and said "no your not, you're cuddly" it was an impulse comment at the time and i was only 7 or so but looking back i remember being confused how kids with skinny mums could get the same feeling from hugging them, lol

I am not sure where my fa came to be. My mom was always thin but dad had this beer belly. My dad always thought being fat was a bad thing and always encouraged us kids to stay thin considering he never made an effort to lose weight. Yet, I have been attracted to others who are fat since I was 7 years old.

My mom is a very big lady however my dad was pretty small guy. Though I do know he too loves big women, so I've always kinda wondered if it was genetic at all just a thought though.