13 years
My rant on closet fa's
TubbyBoy wrote
If you have the slightest bit of humanity, do not EVER date a woman while you are still cowering in your closet. Its not some sort of charity work "guiding you to the light". No woman can deal with your self-loathing for you. And until you DO deal with that self-loathing, dating fat women while being "in the closet" as an FA is emotional abuse. You are welcome to make yourself suffer however much you please, but the second you try to bring suffering to another person so you can get what you want anyway, you cross a very grave line into cruel and inhuman treatment of others. Don't do it. Women shouldn't have experiences with closet fa's at all. If they do, its because the FA is trying to force them into their closet so they can suffer in their place while the FA gets to hate fat people and get off on them all at the same time. That is NEVER acceptable.
Dazed wrote
I know some women out there have had some horrible experiances with closet fa, but please dont get discourage because of some bad apples. There are plenty of guys, like me who are just waiting for a girl to guide them to the light. You may even like it
I know some women out there have had some horrible experiances with closet fa, but please dont get discourage because of some bad apples. There are plenty of guys, like me who are just waiting for a girl to guide them to the light. You may even like it
If you have the slightest bit of humanity, do not EVER date a woman while you are still cowering in your closet. Its not some sort of charity work "guiding you to the light". No woman can deal with your self-loathing for you. And until you DO deal with that self-loathing, dating fat women while being "in the closet" as an FA is emotional abuse. You are welcome to make yourself suffer however much you please, but the second you try to bring suffering to another person so you can get what you want anyway, you cross a very grave line into cruel and inhuman treatment of others. Don't do it. Women shouldn't have experiences with closet fa's at all. If they do, its because the FA is trying to force them into their closet so they can suffer in their place while the FA gets to hate fat people and get off on them all at the same time. That is NEVER acceptable.
haha i am niether loathing or have ever let another suffer in my stead. I chose the way I go about my preferences, just like you. So your attempt to put me in the partime fat-hater group is both false a nieve, sire
13 years
My rant on closet fa's
Dazed wrote
well i have never dated a bigger women... also i never even remotely mention anything you carelessly generalized.... If i love a women, I would tell them so. no matter what... I know ur frustrated, but there are two sides to a coin.
well i have never dated a bigger women... also i never even remotely mention anything you carelessly generalized.... If i love a women, I would tell them so. no matter what... I know ur frustrated, but there are two sides to a coin.
Dazed wrote
haha i am niether loathing or have ever let another suffer in my stead. I chose the way I go about my preferences, just like you. So your attempt to put me in the partime fat-hater group is both false a nieve, sire
haha i am niether loathing or have ever let another suffer in my stead. I chose the way I go about my preferences, just like you. So your attempt to put me in the partime fat-hater group is both false a nieve, sire
So... are you a true closet FA or not?
If you don't run around shouting from the rooftops that you're an FA, it... doesn't mean you're in the closet, you know. FA's rarely do that either. They just live their life and do whatever as usual, not letting the worries cross their mind.You're only a closet FA if you hide someone you love in the closet or if you make negative remarks about bigger people to fit in. That, is the kind of people we're talking about. If you don't do any of that, I think you may have confused yourself with an identity that isn't good at all.
13 years
My rant on closet fa's
XgorgedNgorgeousX wrote
Saph, thank you! You are so right. Yes, the site is called fantasy feeder. Guess what we can talk about feeding and gaining in the fantasy aspect, but tomorrow when I wake up, I'm still going to be fat. I think it's hilarious when these shallow people come here and are so vain and selfish that theyll talk to people like me when they want a quick fap or wtv and then the next day we're not good enough for them?
@ Dazed, this is a fat positive comunity. Youre obviously here bc you admire fat. Practice what you preach. Bc at this point you are no better than the shallow people in your area. Actually, worse in a way, because if I can't trust an FA to treat me like a human being, then....***.
So whether or not u actively do this to girls on here.....you are still betraying us if you poke fun at fat people off the site with your friends.
Another question I have is if you are embarassed to date a fat person, would you also be embarassed to date someone from another race? What if your "friends" made fun of you for that......Is that ok? And for you to continue to surround yourself with racist people upon finding this out? Yeah,well you're doing the same thing here, only youre allowing a sizeist society to dictate your life.
Saphiel Sir wrote
I will also reaffirm that the 'Fantasy' part of Fantasy Feeder primarily refers to more than just being with a bigger girl/guy.
If you get together with someone that's bigger, don't hide them, and don't look back. You won't regret it. The scorn of others will fade away, but love can last a long, long time. Don't forget that either.
And also a reminder to people not to fight about what happened in that particular thread, thank you. It was closed for a reason and it would be a shame to see that argument cause this topic to close too.
Dazed wrote
Because at this point this is a fantasy to me, which all you have to understand, this site is called fantasy feeder for a reason. When fantasy meets reality, sometimes negitive results can occur.
Because at this point this is a fantasy to me, which all you have to understand, this site is called fantasy feeder for a reason. When fantasy meets reality, sometimes negitive results can occur.
I will also reaffirm that the 'Fantasy' part of Fantasy Feeder primarily refers to more than just being with a bigger girl/guy.
If you get together with someone that's bigger, don't hide them, and don't look back. You won't regret it. The scorn of others will fade away, but love can last a long, long time. Don't forget that either.canadianenglish wrote
This boils down to what I wrote a few weeks back in the thread "Pep Talk" and got roundly criticized for by the male contingent, perhaps because I didn't nail the point in that thread.
This boils down to what I wrote a few weeks back in the thread "Pep Talk" and got roundly criticized for by the male contingent, perhaps because I didn't nail the point in that thread.
And also a reminder to people not to fight about what happened in that particular thread, thank you. It was closed for a reason and it would be a shame to see that argument cause this topic to close too.
Saph, thank you! You are so right. Yes, the site is called fantasy feeder. Guess what we can talk about feeding and gaining in the fantasy aspect, but tomorrow when I wake up, I'm still going to be fat. I think it's hilarious when these shallow people come here and are so vain and selfish that theyll talk to people like me when they want a quick fap or wtv and then the next day we're not good enough for them?
@ Dazed, this is a fat positive comunity. Youre obviously here bc you admire fat. Practice what you preach. Bc at this point you are no better than the shallow people in your area. Actually, worse in a way, because if I can't trust an FA to treat me like a human being, then....***.
So whether or not u actively do this to girls on here.....you are still betraying us if you poke fun at fat people off the site with your friends.
Another question I have is if you are embarassed to date a fat person, would you also be embarassed to date someone from another race? What if your "friends" made fun of you for that......Is that ok? And for you to continue to surround yourself with racist people upon finding this out? Yeah,well you're doing the same thing here, only youre allowing a sizeist society to dictate your life.
i just quoted this becaused it falseified me the most but this applies to everyone else, further note I have never ever ever mistreated a bigger women period, and this is like the third time i said that so please read before you post:
I am try to give all of you a perspective, that is all, your attempts to verbally knock me down a peg are both un-need and spit on the fundemental values of this site, which is to gather a fat-admiring commun. free of critique. You may disaggree with me, I accept that, but you dont need to call me something im not, I take personal pride in how I treat others and have been comended many times for it.
Lastly, as far as if im a closet FA or not here iss a quote from the joker that might shed some light on my situation: "Im like a dog chasing a car, I would have no idea what to do if I caught it!" If you need clarification of this feel free to email or pm me.
13 years
My rant on closet fa's
XgorgedNgorgeousX wrote
I concur
chubbyhoney wrote
Excellent post CE.
Excellent post CE.
I concur
A sound bravo from me too. I was going to add something but I think everything I could possibly offer has been covered already lol.
13 years
My rant on closet fa's
I urge you ladies and gents to read. Cause you not doing it plain and simple.
This is the LAST time I say this:
A) I have never mistreated a bigger women
I am just sheding light on those on here that are not speaking for themselves
C) I do not tolerate mistreatment of anyone from those around me
furthermore, my preference with my fat admiration is from afar. I do not tell me friends, family, or relations. And that is my preference I am not hurting anyone or even myself, I just like it that way. And by telling me Im wrong for thinking that way is extremly hypocritical.
This is the LAST time I say this:
A) I have never mistreated a bigger women
I am just sheding light on those on here that are not speaking for themselvesC) I do not tolerate mistreatment of anyone from those around me
furthermore, my preference with my fat admiration is from afar. I do not tell me friends, family, or relations. And that is my preference I am not hurting anyone or even myself, I just like it that way. And by telling me Im wrong for thinking that way is extremly hypocritical.
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