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I dont get it much but even when I was 60 kilos and was definetly not fat, I was out jogging and a guy in a car yelled out' Keep running fat girl'
but as the car was levelling with us I just had a feeling they were going to yell something out, so I had my drink bottle ready and when he yelled I threw it hard at the window and it broke hahahahahahaha

OMG I can not believe for one, that a group of guys had nothing better to do on a night out than har*** a gorgeous woman because she weighs more than them like .. wtf losers
and secondly that this kind of behaviour is tolerated and just brushed off like that !!!

What a ***ing joke !

Also this
' "Yep, I bought a lot of xyz! What'd you get?" if it's another customer, and go over to their cart and start looking. It usually works. lol'

made me laugh sooo hard hahahahaha, the ' and start looking ' hahahahahaha

Why am I SO not surprised that the shouts come from men and men under 30 particularly!!!Just f**king,brain dead idiots with penises as small as their brains!HUGE RESPECT from me for standing up to them
Stares are a little trickier..bit of a danger of misinterpretation!After all,it might be someone like me:staring because I'm turned on by you!

I think I'm at the opposite end of the spectrum here. When I was in high school (as a 14-16 year old) I had the taller girls try and taunt me for being small. I certainly wasnt fat, but a bit on the short side back then.
Ah well, guess what happened as a result?

Fear my dear, rooted so deep they don't even realize it. I've met people who have built their lives around it.

As an old prof once said, "there is no one more repressed than someone who doesn't know it."

I got to agree with the OP on women being judgmental, I think the guys do it for two reasons, one the reason she mentions, and two I think a lot of guys do it from peer pressure. if their friends don't like fat girls, they shouldn't either.

I don't see anything wrong with not liking fat girls (yelling at them is a different matter), not having enough self esteem to go so far as to make hateful comments to someone else just because you can't admit to being slightly different from the group is pathetic.

I've seen to many guys I know who dated fat girls turn around in front of other people and put them down (fat girls in general, not just their ex.)

It's almost dogma in the gay community that "fag bashers" (people who violently attack gay males) are likely closet gays who attack out gays either out out hatred, self loathing, or to prove themselves. I don't think it's far off the mark.

I'm not sure how I'd react if this happened...all I get is concerns from my mom about gaining too much weight.

Hahah someone called me fat the other day and I said to them
' that's like calling me brunette '
hahah hell stopped them in their tracks
flirty you are so right haha people think calling you fat will be like soo hurful so then when it doesnt offend you it completely strips bullies like that of their power, its so funny seeing them trying to process it in their little minds

but... shes fat... and shes not being insulted by me calling her fat... uhh what do i do.. derp derp

thats basically the process lol

that's the same with me tbh, i used to get jeers and insults quite a lot in year 7/8 but nower days i don't get much insults, i know i'm fat but it doesn't often show