My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex, and he's my first, so it's sort of a big deal. He's about 380 lbs (mmm!), and I love every last ounce of it. The problem from time to time is, well, sex. Intercourse, more specifically. He does an amazing job with his hands, and I love rubbing my hands all over his big, soft body, but.... Well, no matter what we seem to do, penetrating me seems to be an issue. He's not small, per se, but his enormous belly seems to, erm, obscure him a bit. The first several times, we were just using the missionary position, which was great in a number of different ways (I love his weight on top of me, his belly pressed into me, how out of breath he is by the end of it, etc), but it's a difficult position for a fat man, no two ways about it. We've tried a few other things since then, but nothing seems to work. Me on top was the best so far, as he prefers a woman on top anyway, and I was able to get him a bit deeper inside of me. We tried doggy style, but he kept slipping out, and we tried something or other with me sitting on the edge of the bed, but that was much better for him than it was for me.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining. I absolutely adore this boy, and I'm attracted to him beyond my wildest dreams. I love how into me he is, and I love making him feel sexy. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to positions or techniques that work better with a fat man, and if there is a way to pass those suggestions on to him without making him believe he isn't adequate in the bedroom. Any ideas? =)
12 years
