As much as I love bigger women and especially bigger bellies, I always try to advocate this simple rule: do what makes you happy. Don't do anything just because it makes other people happy.
There's a few things you can try. Imagine your family accepted your size, whatever it might be. Or even broader scope: if there were no size acceptance issues in the world, would you prefer to be big - maybe even bigger than now?
If the answer is yes, then you'll just need to consider if you're willing to accept that some people will have issues with your size, and choose ignore them.
In my opinion you're very cute and I wouldn't mind seeing more of you if that's what you choose for yourself.
-Sev
12 years
