Gaining

It's all over the map.

I did advise one woman who asked how to talk to her Mother about her gain. She said my advice helped:

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Negatively!And they know nothing of my INTENTIONAL gain/fat fetish....they'd NEVER understand!
But it's my life and I love being fat and it turns me on,so I'm happy

I didn't have to worry about what my family thought when I gained weight. All of my family members are fat.

They were probably wondering when I was going to get fat.

Try "I may be fat, grandpa, but at least I'm not verbally abusive.".