I can think of numerous reasons why this could happen. The first and foremost one would be projection. If you think about it, fit people generally have to reduce their amount of calories, fat and sugar intakes. Psychologically, a fit person could be projecting this want to go against this restriction onto their significant other. Because this post is more about fit guys into fat girls, I'll stick with that. Guys have it tougher than girls when it comes to body image. I mean the construct for guys is around 6 foot tall, usually tanned and anywhere between 190-210lbs of muscle if not more, and most annoyingly, damn near hairless. I mean if you think about it, a fatter or heavier woman can be deemed "acceptable" for a number of reasons. Her extra weight may disperse favorably, even now there are ad campaigns for "average" or "plus-size" women, and for men...nothing except muscleman. So guys get it on both ends really. There's no plus-sized guy campaign or save the beer-gut initative. There's muscleman and being strong and fit. Plus it's typically (not always obviously) what a mate is looking for.
Additionally, I touched on this. Should a woman gain weight, guys typically tend to follow the bigger is better rule on one fashion or another. So a lady with a bigger belly, breasts, booty, legs, etc. is a good thing. Also, genetic memory tends to have men or at least notice women with wider hips and adequate breasts as these are requirements for good child bearing supposedly since caveman days. Can't really be sure because there isn't really a way to test genetic memory.
And it pains me to say this because it's a stupid reason, but for some reason men think that fatter women may be easier to lay or control or whatever than thinner women. But as most of us on sites like this one and Curvage know. That is not the case. there are plenty of fine, confident and independent bigger and gaining ladies out there.
My biggest reason for liking bigger women are the curves, or rather, I'm not attracted to skin and bones or overly thin women. I've never ever found them attractive. I've found women with curves more attractive and that they tend to fit into more of my particular kinks.
As for being a trainer or in the health field (studying to be a nutritionist, which makes me even more of a dangerous feeder lol) and wanting to see a woman gain weight, it could go either way. I'm all for being comfortable in your own skin, and being or becoming more healthy. However, there are some women that should not lose too much weight. It can be dangerous first of all. We all know about the ballerina stories. But physically, the ladies start to not look as attractive. Maybe it's because I look through feeder-colored glasses. LOL
I do wish proper nutrition was taught to children and people in general. With that a lot of people would be better off. Of course then my job would be obsolete. LOL Regardless, I person should always feel good in their skin. If they feel it's +50 lbs. or -50 lbs. I don't mind, I'd love to help. As for helping a client gain. I love it, perhaps even do a little secret feeder or encouragment stuff, unless she was already a feedee. Then forget that stuff, to the buffet after work and when's our first stuffing session gonna be.
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