Gaining

I'm not judging here, just curious.

Are you...

1. Gaining but don't talk about it with anyone.

2. Gaining but not admitting that you like it or that even that you're okay with it.

3. Gaining and tell people you're okay with it but not that it's intentional.

4. Gaining and tell people you like it but not that it's intentional.

5. Gaining and tell people it's intentional.

6. Gaining and admitting it's a sexual thing

7. Gaining, didn't want to tell but people found out anyway.


If you've said more to some people than others, you might give a mixed answer, e.g. "2 to some friends, 1 to parents" or something.

Thanks!

Number 1, for me. Though it is deliberate.

Ned Fox

7 for me - it really wasn't as much of an issue as I was dreading it to be. Most people know that I'm happier now than I was before, and I'm open enough to talk about it if asked. But, I don't feel the need to bring it up myself.

3 to most people, 1 with immediate family members and 6 with my better half.

hmmm, i gained a little on purpose but still try to hide it (sucking it in, sweaters etc) as don't want people to notice.