General

You know.. I've kinda found myself on this end of the spectrum myself... I find someone on here and we kinda have... a particular subject.. But when I find someone else I enjoy talking with in other subjects... I'm kinda just not up to code...

But in terms of logic... There's a reason why that special someone has the "one" in it...

honesty really doesn't seem to play much role when it comes down to it... You can be honest all you like, but a person that doesn't care, just doesn't care. There is no magical cure, or rhyme and reason how to deal with it....

It's just something that happens from time to time, some are more tactful than others... But it all still hurts like hell when you put emotion into it... Matters of the heart tend to be gambles.. Win some, you loose some.

Both people have to want the relationship, and be happy in it. It's not a male thing or a female thing.