Natsuki96 wrote:
There are many people here who have a partner and their partner doesn't know anything about this site or the fetishes... I don't know how others see this but, personally I think that's as if they were cheating on their partners .. or something, because a lot of them talk to other people looking for other things (you know), not just advice...
What do you think?
I think it is cheating.
But that said, is masturbating to porn or getting turned on by romantic novels or erotica writing, is that cheating?
Because I'm thinking that those of us with this "peculiar desire" may have to help get our engines revving by some means. Is it wrong that we get turned on (and return to get turned on) to erotic writings, photos, etc.?