Earthling wrote:chubbyhoney wrote:Elanor wrote:
To the OP: So... It's okay to call another man "a pussy" for keeping his SSBBW girlfriend a secret (referring to your response to the "embarrassed by your SSBBW" thread), but it's also okay to keep your visiting FF a secret? Could you please explain this to me? Sounds like you'd be embarrassed to bring your SSBBW home to meet the family. Or am I missing something here? Please remember that a vast percentage of the members of FF are actually fat people, and they are real people, with feelings and all that, not paid BBW/SSBBW models* or the male equivalent thereof.
*disclaimer: paid models are real people with feelings too. But you catch my drift.
This is a very good point.
No its not! Theres a difference between keeping your partner secret from friends and keeping fetishy nuances and pornography hidden from your friends...
Some people are thin, some are fat, that doesn't matter from a normal social perspective... it doesnt matter if you meet someone from here or in normal life at the end of the day they're your partner, not your fetish and the latter is unimportant outside of this site or the bedroom
Theres nothing wrong with hiding FF, a subscription to BigCuties or "feeding the Obeast" any more than hiding a draw full of butt plugs, or even any online dating profile, if its not a context you want yourself or your relationship to be seen in... And judging by all the headless photos most members are happy to be discreet
A majority of FF is just fat-positive rather than just exploring the various nuances and intricacies of the fetish. To qualify the whole thing as a fetish site when there's so much of it that's just fat people existing as fat people is just ridiculous.
No, friends and family don't have to be privy to what I masturbate to, but so much of this site is
not that, unless you're sexually aroused by unappealing color themes.
