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what is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?2 years

I remember back nearly 20 years ago when I was a junior in highschool I was very self conscious and had a poor self image because of my weight. I find that hard to believe now since i�m now over 120 pounds heavier and have way many more fat rolls but back then as a 17 year old girl and being 175 pounds at only 5�0� tall my world was very different. I know � of the guys avoided me like the plague and was frequently called the �fat chick� by some in my graduating class. I had a few memorable dates though. There were some fat admirers in my school but they were few and far between and I think there were a fair number too embarrassed to admit it. Most of the fat admirers I dated in the mid-late 1990s were true gentlemen.
In recent years I�ve been over 300 pounds on several occasions. I have learned to accept and even love all my excess weight. It seems like everywhere I�ve lived or visited there are always guys asking if I�m available. It seems like being a size 28 today don�t scare guys off like being a size 16 back in high school some 20 years ago. I guess there are for more obese and even morbidly obese women in society today and people are becoming more accepting of us once again. It is even more common today for a man to have a morbidly obese wife or girlfriend.
What is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?
What did you like most or least about dating a bbw or ssbbw?
If you are married or in a long term relationship, would you consider your wife or significant other to be a bbw or ssbbw?
Was your partner considered obese when you met or became that way after being together?

What are some of the pros and cons, or challenges that you faced being married or in a relationship with a bbw or ssbbw?

Attitude is everything. You definitely have the right attitude today. Congratulations! If you don't already have him, you are going to make some man incredibly happy!

what is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?2 years

Much better description of a woman you liked

what is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?2 years

I have already "weighed in" on this subject, but I wanted to answer because I am a guy and numbers excite me. smiley

I remember years ago reading advertisements for a weight loss product and thinking the women were so much more beautiful in the "before" photos.

When I started dating, I bowed to societal pressure and only dated chubby women or bigger women with even larger breasts because big breasts are always acceptable. There was a girl in high school who was a SSBBW (although I don't think I knew the term yet) who I really wish I had dated. I didn't know her well, but she was always fun to engage in conversation. I really missed out.

In college I met a thin woman and we dated exclusively for three years. She started talking about marriage, but I was non-committal and she broke up with me. It was the best thing that ever happened.

After college and on my own, I realized I could and should date whomever I wanted. I meet a woman who I guessed was about 250 pounds and she swept me off my feet. We dated for a long time. We both loved to eat. By the time we came to the end, she was well over 300 pounds. Nothing bad happened between us, we just moved on.

Over the next few years, I knew I would only be happy with a larger woman. Some guys like hair, eyes, or long legs. I like fat. I had some great dates with some sexy BBW and SSBBW. I treat people the way I want to be treated. I am sure if I see any of them again, we will have good memories of what we enjoyed.

Then came the internet! I miss the AOL days of creating a "Looking for a BBW in (fill in the city)" chat room and waiting only moments for women to arrive.

I was traveling for work and had the opportunity to meet new women in new places. I was completely honest about going new places to meet BBW and SSBBW. During this period, I met a woman who told me she weighed 465 pounds with measurements of 56-48-68. She also loved being fat! She showed me how she played with her fat and that it can be a very erotic experience for both of us!

What I learned in this relationship, I shared with other BBW and SSBBW. I have met and enjoyed many fat women. At least one BBW even preferred fat men. smiley

I met my 470 pound friend via the internet and we dated for about 9 months. Since then I have been seeing a 382 pound woman who is incredible in ALL aspects.

Suffice it to say, I prefer fat woman! Will 470 be my biggest? I don't know, but I know I would enjoy the opportunity to be with an even larger woman - maybe even a feeder.

Thanks for reading. I hope you enjoyed this. I still travel for work and enjoy meeting people for fun, friendship, feasting, and whatever common interests we find we share. Drop me a note. smiley

what is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?2 years

what is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?2 years


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what is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?2 years

My ex was 330 pounds and I was 270

what is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?11 months

About 315 and 4'11.

what is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?11 months

Wow Halever, nice stories!

For me, I had a couple of girls, 5'4" and 5'5" that got to 312 and 309 respectively. Beautiful bodies. Those two were my favorite. My actual heaviest was a 5'7" girl that hit 384 but that number may be misleading as her dad was a direct descendant of Red Beard and she had that Viking build, "built like a Mac truck" as she put it. Her bones were like steel girders. When we met, she about 240ish but not fat at all, not even noticeably thick, just broad and very sturdy. It's interesting.

The 5'4" girl, always struggled with weight, hated herself for it, and if I said anything positive about her, she turned it into a negative so I learned to stop trying to help her feel good about it. The 5'5" girl, was about 250 when we met and like her "pudge" as she referred to it. Once finding out I like bigger girls and would love to see her bigger, that was all she needed to know to stop struggling and start enjoying. She also liked bigger guys and had Feeder tendencies although she knew nothing of this community. It was a long distance relationship and we talked a lot about what it would be like if we were together. She wanted to cook and bake and that warned me that if I didn't gain weight, she wouldn't feel like she was taking good care of me. She would have married me if I had asked. Part of me wonders if I should have. She was an awesome girl in so many ways. I miss her. She's happily married now, to a very big guy.

what is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?11 months

This is a great thread and really draws me to the FF site because I like to read and learn about my fellow FAs and the amazing BBW inner desires/preferences.

I didn't always know my girl friends weight: I remember a girl who blossomed in middle school to have glorious breasts and a round belly that they rested upon. I always tried to sit next to her on the school bus and pray for curves where I could feel her softness upon me. I couldn't take my eyes off her, and she always offered up a knowing smile of my adolescent lustsmiley

In college I worked at a library in the periodicals department. A girl worked there who was very full figured and she had this wonderful habit of squeezing by me back in the storage shelves.... and it took my breath away. She was an actress and because of her larger size played an older woman in a play I saw her in. Later at her place she told me how tight the costume was, and I asked if I could help her out of it - my first brush with experiencing the beauty of a woman of larger size in clothing she thinks she can still fit in, in clothing designed for a societal "norm" that her love of eating has shattered wondrously with expanding pounds of pride.

When I had my first job as a caseworker I met Dena. I really enjoyed speaking with her about her case and asked if I could call her (note: this is pre-cell phone days of no texting and having to compete with room mates for telephone time - God I'm oldsmiley. So things went well and I asked to meet for a date. She put it off and put it off.... And in the mean time every Friday she would drop off a delicious treat of donuts, cinnamon rolls, cookies at my work place. Finally it came out - she told me that she had gained weight and was 297 pounds. This was the first time I ever knew a woman's weight, so it was just a number and it was almost twice my own weight at the time. We met in the most romantic manner possible (a hotel where she had written the most heartfelt letter saying that it was ok if I withdrew if I found her to fat) with candles and soft music. I felt so drawn to her, breathless at times, savoring her curves and softness. Over the course of our relationship I found that we tended to meet in secluded places (hotels and a cabin up in the mountains) where she loved to cook and feed me. I finally turned the tables to feed her, which kind of shocked her because she was on a path to lose weight to be more "attractive". My actions of being completely aroused when she was scantily clad in tight negligee spoke multitudes about my lust for her. And on weeknights we'd meet for dinner at a restaurant and she always gave me a blowjob in the parking lot, calling it her desert!

As a side note, it was around this time (late '80s) that I discovered BUF magazine which featured women of larger variety and who actually had big bellys on display! I had never been drawn to the standard Playboys or Penthouse, but did purchase quite a few issues where a BBW was featured... thank God we now have the Internet smiley

I moved back East and dated different types of women, not all BBW (which again by the way wasn't a term I knew at this point). I married a woman who was tall and around 160 pounds. When we had our first child she gained 80 pounds and I was so turned on by her belly and hips that she told me the doctor said no intercourse in the final weeks of pregnancy (a crushing blow). She kept the weight and we had another child 14 months later! I told her that her weight gain was beautiful, but she just could not maintain it due to her self image, peer pressure (she had 5 sisters who were the Roman chorus of being "normal" size). Our love life eventually faded in to the mist, and we went our separate ways through divorce 6 years ago.

Shortly thereafter I met a new girlfriend, Connie. She had large breasts and a great belly (where the top half sectioned over the bottom half with massive girth). I was completely turned on, more sexual in the years of our relationship than I had been in the previous decade. But she said that her weight gain was the result of taking anti depressants and that she wanted to lose weight. Again, a woman not truly happy being heavier and despite my clear affirmations and demonstrations of instinctual FA preference, and we broke up.

Which brings me to the past couple of years. It's been a Renaissance period for me as a man in my 50s who can use the web to express my true self, my true draw toward the fully expressed woman, the woman who has savored every morsel of food and drink she loves in abundance and has the widening hips, expanding belly and larger breasts to show for it. The physical attraction to the BBW/SSBBW/Feedee is undeniable for me, and what I really like is reading blogs and threads like this one where I find kindred spirits to share my passion and journey with.....

I just noticed my original reply was cut off. See it below.

what is the heaviest girl that you have ever dated?11 months

For me she was 650 and absolutely amazing
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