weightgain

not sure if it's right or wrong?8 months

Yes you're completely in the wrong. Sabotoging your partners life choices for your own amusement is wrong. You know she does not share your preferences and yet you're forcing them upon her despite having the opposite goal.

You watched her cry for fucks sakes... She trusts and believes you and you're lying to her face. If she gains weight due to her own choices that's one thing. To directly sabotage her routine to meet your own ends knowing full well how she feels is aweful.

Theres nothing wrong about having a fetish. What is wrong is when you put getting off above your partners feelings. Don't be another addition to those feederism horror stories...

Also if you truly cannot sacrifice your fetish and willing to go this far, perhaps you need to step away before things get worse. Getting engaged to someone you can't trust/ share indulge in fantasies with is a huge mistake.

not sure if it's right or wrong?8 months

Omg this is HORRIBLE! How can you say you care for this person when you are lying, cheating her health, making her go through so much hard work and absolute heartbreak every time she steps onto a scale, only because it gets you off a little more that sheís fat? Youíre causing her serious depression and what you are doing is absolutely horrible for her mental health. To sit there watching her cry and still feel like what youíre doing is ok. I canít rven comprehend how horrible of a person you musts truly be to do this! Please, please, please if you care any teeny tiny bit about this girl as a human being PLEASE STOP DOING THIS TO HER! You need to tell her exactly what youíve been doing, Christ just show her this post! I guarantee she wonít be with you anymore. Youíre an absolute monster if you stay with her and donít tell her ALL of this. Wow. I feel so incredibly sad for this girl. I wish I knew who she was so I could offer some help to finally feel better after everything she has been through. If she only knew that the person she loves and trusts the most is doing all of this horrible stuff to her. Just, wow.

not sure if it's right or wrong?8 months

What's more important? The girl or your kink? I think it's a choice for you to make because you can't have both... I think the others are being a little harsh, it's hard to grow up being a FA. You try to have a normal relationship, but feel cheated when the person you date loses weight, they feel happier but you don't... Think most people on here have tried to juggle this situation only for the relationship to inevitably fail because of it

I've not checked your profile but I'm assuming you're youngish. My advice is to break up with her and find a feedee or at least someone who doesn't give a shit about their weight until you figure out how to come to terms with the idea that your sexuality isn't the main driving factor in a long term stable relationship. You're either going to hurt her or be resentful in the long term if you stay together.

not sure if it's right or wrong?8 months

It is totally wrong. It is her decision to attempt to be at the weight she wants to be.

not sure if it's right or wrong?7 months

At some point she's going to figure out what you've done to her and that will end the relationship and most likely drive her back to a life of diet and exercise!

not sure if it's right or wrong?7 months

It's her arm that bends to put the food in her mouth. She sounds like a natural born piggy to me. Whether you feed her or not she will always choose to get fat. She may not like it but she needs to learn how to accept herself for what she is. There is nothing worse than a piggy that complains about being a piggy. Just sit back and watch, she'll do the rest. Keep telling her how sexy she is to you. Because really that's who matters her boyfriend, husband.

not sure if it's right or wrong?7 months

What is is really wrong with this thread is that you show out yourself been not only incapable to empathize for your own future bride and force-fed her uberknowst of your own intentions with the aid of a medical high-caloric supplement (whom I cannot even understand you succeed to provide this for yourself, this is a freaking supplement for babies reserved for strict medical use) who may stem to high-risking health issues if badly dosed,

but you feel the ridiculous need to a ask sone advices from some random bypassers inside a fetish-centered website to know if yes or no you acted in complete selfishing by violating figuratively and literally the trust she have for YOU.