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one year, max gain, let's gameplan5 months

I've been a lurker up until now, but I'm a 25 year old stay at home mom, been married to my awesome husband since we were 18.

I've always kept in relatively good shape - 5'10 130 lbs, frequently went to the gym. When we got pregnant, right after birth I ended up in the 170s, for reference. Got back down to 140, which is where I'm at right now.

Now, I'm not exactly huge in feederism (or at least, so I thought), but my husband has always had a thing for bigger girls.

(...i.e., I knew his pornhub was nothing but Mandy Majestic, Kandi Kobain and a bunch of amateur BBWs that relatively looked their size)

I don't really care, because we still have a great marriage and great sex life, and he's always been an awesome husband and dad.

Anyways, right after I gave birth, I could tell that he really loved the extra weight on me (his high as hell sex drive went even higher, and he was treating my deflated-ass looking belly on the same level as most guys do boobs), and to be honest I actually agree with him.

(He said he had zero issues if I decided to just not lose the baby weight, well I did and now I kinda regret it.)

Long story short, he's leaving for 12 months, so I had an idea. I knew he's had a lifelong thing for bigger girls, and the more I thought about it, the more appealing fattening myself up sounded.

The liberation seems awesome (freedom to eat what I want, when I want and how I want it? Sign my ass up...).

I've started to see being fatter as being more feminine - more fat = bigger boobs, softer/round(er) belly, thicker hips and thighs, etc.

Always had admired those bodybuilder chicks with legit abs, now I think they're a bit gross, but whatever suits them.

Straight asked my husband what would he think about leaving married to skinny chick, but coming back married to a plump-as-all-hell BBW.

He gave me his incredibly enthusiastic approval - figure didn't want to make this shit a surprise just in case, but as it turns out he admitted that he kind of wanted me to keep the baby weight on (and put on some considerable amount more after that), but he didn't want to pressure me.

Anyways, a bunch of talking later, and we're doing this, for real. Project Make-Myself-Obese is a full go

I'm excited as all hell - not to sound to freaky, but I managed to give myself what I think was a 100% mental orgasm when I clicked the "cancel" button on my gym membership.

But, I'm nervous as hell.

Always been a skinny AF girl. It's dumb as hell, because all the women in my family are at least pudgy, and all of my mom friends are either BBWs or outright clinically obese, so it's not like I'd be sticking out if I put significant weight on. I stick out more, now.

Not that social pressure should be a determining factor in any of this, just trying to illustrate how I wouldn't be facing any real amount if I softened up.

So yeah. I'm nervous, just because of the major life change.

Husband and I did a thing a couple nights ago - sort of an official you're-not-skinny-anymore-you're-an-aspiring-fatty, I baked a huge cake using all sorts of high calorie goodies, and he fed the entire thing to me, in bed.

(Then we did the deed, but I was so stuffed I kinda just starfished for the entire time. He didn't seem to mind.)

So, game plan time.

I'm nervous (like, excited-nervous) to fully let myself go, but I do want to. We agreed on the for-now end goal of me getting to Carmen La Fox's or Azismiss's zip code, weight-wise.

Hype me up.

I'm ready to take the plunge: for those of who are actually fattening up, what do I have to look forward to?

(besides the obvious that I said above)

I'm a dork for quantifying numbers, so I actually got myfitnesspal premium, a fitbit (to be used for precisely the opposite purpose than intended) and have been researching (if you can call it that) what's the best ingredients for gainer shakes,

There's not really a whole lot that I'm not willing to do to get the pounds to start piling on, save for crazy shit like drinking straight canola oil/chugging butter. Can't really go nuts on alcohol, since I got a kid in the house and I'll be the only parent present. And I'm kind of the lightweight to end all lightweights either way, so there's that.

I do have two dozen cartons of heavy cream sitting in the fridge, just waiting for me.

I want to go balls to the walls on this.

Genetically-speaking, weight gain comes easy (I don't think I know a female relative who's less than the 190-200 zone), and that has me equal parts squealing in excitement and nervous as all hell.

Like I said, I'm 5'10 so I'm fairly tall for a Boobed American, so how much would ya'll estimate I'd have to put on before I got into the same sphere as the above links?

Like I said, excited to do it and fully plan on eventually, but also a massive dork for numbers.

And, so obviously there's gainer shakes, heavy cream and their awesome combinations. Don't want to buy a majo

one year, max gain, let's gameplan5 months

Holy shit... You guys got one hell of an amazing relationship hah!

I have a friend that's also veeeeeeeeeeeeery into numbers. She's also very nervous about going to big though. She usually sets her max at around 160 but her mental barricades have kinda been waning in that regard.

First thing she does when she get's hyped for the adventure is make a spreadsheet of her daily calorie count and her weight. She get's her weight first thing the next morning to make sure it's not just food.

Albiet it sounds like you're going way harder on this than she usually does. She normally drinks Ensure plus to get the job done. But she still manages to pack on the pounds quickly.

She also measures her proportions and looks to see which grew more that day. She's generally super enthusiastic about her lower half growing.

Generally when she is gaining I kinda talk to her about all the small changes and how they keep adding up. "Why not give your thighs a squeeze, my aren't they getting soft? Filling out your pants more and more by the day. Careful now you're getting dangerously curvy! One more bite and your curves might start growing to the point past containment." And stuff like that.

Or sometimes I tell her how much a person normally eats, and compare it to her end of day results. Or when she has a particularly big enough meal... One time she woke up and I managed to get her to consume about a thousand calories before she even got in the shower in the morning.

"Wow... You managed to consume what most would have in an entire day, in thirty minutes. Talk about ballooning hm... Someones gonna be wearing their fat pants today that's for sure. I wonder how long those will last if this becomes a habit."

Just filling her head with the "what if's" of her achievements becoming the norm.

one year, max gain, let's gameplan5 months

What a plan!

If your husband is into gaining and bigger girls then this is quite possibly one of the sexiest ideas going.

He is going to come home to a totally different looking wife from the one he left behind, your body will look and feel different and he is going to have so “suffer” all that anticipation and excitement for a whole year. I know he will get pictures but it will still be a massive thrill especially as he won’t be able to touch.

A year of indulgence could make quite a difference.

Is he on FF? You should update him about your weight weekly through the forum, that would be hot as hell with a little bit of naughty on top.

Good luck with your plans:-)

one year, max gain, let's gameplan5 months

1. Good luck.

2. A year is a long time. Break it down into phases, with dedicated milestones, lookbacks, breaks, reinforcements, and doctor visits. You want him to come home to you being huge, not you being sick.

3. Don't be scared of setbacks, plateaus, and wavering enthusiasm.

one year, max gain, let's gameplan5 months

Your husband, in my eyes, has to be the luckiest straight guy on the planet! Don't forget to document your progress with pictures. I'm sure that he would like to see progression photos (so would we here.....).

one year, max gain, let's gameplan5 months

When you drink that heavy cream, be sure to add lots of sugar to it. (Karo syrup works well since it dissolves better)

You probably want to add some flavoring to it as well, whatever you like.

Drink them as "extra" treats, right before bed, mid-morning, mid-afternoon, and enjoy eating until you are full at your regular meals.

I predict that you will grow pretty quickly this way!