softandchubby: I'm trying not to sound crazy cause I don't care if he looks at other feedees and whatever when I'm gone and he wants to rub one off but i was in bed next to him trying to sleep and he is just looking at these girls. I confronted him about it and he got angry saying I'm making a big deal cause it's nothing but he doesn't get it hurts me when he'd rather look at other girls when I'm right next to him or in the room. Is this a normal guy/feeder thing?
No, that's weird. Sorry. I mean, no one's normal, including me obviously lol, but that is a different kind of strange. I'd guess it to be one of a few things, some of the likelier of which, imho, are:
1. He is trying to get you to do it with him, for any of several reasons, possibly not even thought out..
2. He is trying to manipulate you or your feelings, again for any of several reasons.
3. He doesn't know how to be in a relationship yet and is still testing what is appropriate or acceptable.
4. (Similar to 3) He is testing you or himself.
5. He is socially retarded.
