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New girl and gaining

cdn-ffa:
What you do, imo, is leave. No one gets to give you an ultimatum on your own body.

She's probably not attracted to fat, which honestly the majority of people aren't. But she chose to date you, so it's actually her that needs to be reasonable.

It's your body. You control it. And if she's the type to give "stop X or lose me" threats, I can pretty much guarantee even if you give in that it's a matter of months before she issues her next ultimatums to change you.



Well said!
4 years

New girl and gaining

Good for you! You really don't want to be with someone shallow enough to give you ultimatums like that.
4 years

New girl and gaining

Was going to be coming in to give advice but it looks like what I was going to say was done better and resolved already. Glad to hear that you put yourself and your happiness before another person’s momentary version of the same.
4 years

New girl and gaining

Well, best of luck finding that someone! Happy gaining!
4 years