Fattening others

Support them and appreciate them no matter their weight. If they want to lose weight so be it. If they aren't really into it but aren't doing anything to lose weight appreciate what you have now, not as a focus but just in general. With love and support they may eventually find comfort in their own body but that's something they need to find for themselves.

That's great, It sounds like you're doing your best and I'm sure they appreciate it. As for their weight fluctuation it's kinda on them at this point. I suppose you could ask them if they want you to intervene in anyway and support their diet at all or just kinda continue on as normal.

Ultimately it's something they kinda need to figure out for themselves. The best way to go about it is to continue giving them support and hope that maybe the fact that they have someone who loves and supports them unconditionally aids them in finding comfort in their own skin.

People who are mean, are mean. If you're not fat they will joke about wearing glasses. If he would lose weight they will joke about his lack of muscles. If he is strong they will joke about his face, etc.

Growing someone brings responsibilities. One of them is making sure they're comfortable, especially in their clothes. Start saving to buy him new clothes -- and then keep saving for the next set of new clothes.

Always tell him how beautiful and sexy he is to you. Get him used to you touching his fat; meanwhile tell him how it turns you on and how nice and good it looks on him. In other words, make him feel like the King to his Queen.

Reward good behavior. When he eats good, when he gains weight, do something extra. Your goal is to make him associate eating and getting fat with all kinds of good things.

That's good; you're doing a good job.

Do you have a goal weight for him in mind?