Gaining

If you had someone to help would you go bigger?

i'm stubbornly independent, so while i might be willing to get bigger than that with someone special that i trusted completely and who truly appreciated me i would still want to maintain a reasonable level of mobility.

i'm 5'7" and currently over 160kg, which converted to imperial is well over 350lbs.

all my pics are close ups of my torso because i'm not comfortable showing my face or other identifying features, and that might make me look smaller. i'm told i look bigger in person.