AskDrFeeder:
I'm not a feedee but I'll jump in anyway. I like functional goals, for example:
1) When you gain weight quickly and become a bit clumsier because you aren't used to your new weight and size, and start bumping into things with your hips and such.
2) I'm conflicted over people gaining so much that it's crippling--even if it's kind of hot I'd feel bad for you. But if it's a _bit_ of a struggle to get out of chairs or climb stairs or walk much faster than a waddle, if it's almost impossible to run, that's cute AF.
3) Appetite goals...if you used to have trouble finishing a cheeseburger with fries and now two quarter-pounder with cheese meals aren't enough, that's amazing.
4) Shamelessness--you used to be too shy to overeat in public. But now you love eating so much that you don't care, or at least don't let it slow you down.
Any one else have such goals?
I have definitely become more clumsy since the only way I gain is quickly. Attempting to get in the car while under the carport feels as if it could sell tickets and I am bumping into things I didn't before because my size still feels awkward and this belly goes out so far past my breasts if allowed when I obsessed over trying to keep it flat before.
I have know from the first time Saw the number creeping up that if I allowed myself immobility could become a very real issue if I allowed myself that. Not at all my desire. At the moment, my cardio has slowed so much I need the ac as low as possible to keep from needing a shower after my shower. I am exploring exercise options at the moment because I realize that could be a dangerous slope for me.
The shamelessness. This. In the past I have tried to hide my weight if I ordered what I wanted but most of the time avoiding ordering fattening foods because of what others would think. Now I can go through a drive thru and order more indulgent food than I would dare before with the whole belly out of my pants because I gained too much this week and they're just too damn tight sitting (shirt covering of course). Now i'm not self-conscious of strangers judging what I put in my mouth as I eat a healthy day's calories for breakfast. This has actually been a very real goal for a long time