I tried to “get over it” and the more I pushed it away the more it flooded my mind 
I agree with the above comments. It’s not an end all be all, black and white situation. Weight can be lost too, so if you gained a bit and had second thoughts, it wouldent be impossible to reverse the situation (to a certain extent).
When I tried to give up my fetishes I felt like I abandoned a best friend, and felt sad. Honestly, it was extremely similar to someone giving up drinking and reminiscing on all the good times they had. I couldn’t take it anymore and just gave in. I have not regretted marrying a fat woman and also putting on weight myself, for a single second
Good luck to you! Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, it’s supposed to feel nice and be fun, at the end of the day.
I agree with the above comments. It’s not an end all be all, black and white situation. Weight can be lost too, so if you gained a bit and had second thoughts, it wouldent be impossible to reverse the situation (to a certain extent).
When I tried to give up my fetishes I felt like I abandoned a best friend, and felt sad. Honestly, it was extremely similar to someone giving up drinking and reminiscing on all the good times they had. I couldn’t take it anymore and just gave in. I have not regretted marrying a fat woman and also putting on weight myself, for a single second
Good luck to you! Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, it’s supposed to feel nice and be fun, at the end of the day.
3 years
