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Thanks everyone for your input. I knew It wasn’t just me

Its a shame she treated you that way.

I wouldn’t want anyone like that in my life. If you tell them to stop it means stop. That’s just disrespectful and rude.

Either two people are compatible or they're not.

Some people thrive on pain, others on comfort, others on being left alone.

If a partner's behavior is abhorrent, and they refuse to accommodate your preferences, leave.

If you can't leave due to fear, involve the authorities. A situation this bad will only get worse.

There are billions of people in this world. It's insane to waste one's life in a bad relationship.