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How to deal with attraction at weird times

Guess I’m not the only one dealing with the issue of being turned on in akward situations when you really don’t want to, but the fetish is too strong. For example in work situations, with relatives and so on. How do you deal with that?
3 years

How to deal with attraction at weird times

LesbiHonest:
I haven't found a good fix-it for this. When it happens to me I just focus on the topic at hand as best I can. Sometimes I'm able to focus on XYZ enough that my arousal dies down, but other times I've got to wait until I get a private moment alone, if you know what I mean.


Get it! The struggle is real 😅
3 years

How to deal with attraction at weird times

valgodd:
Guess I’m not the only one dealing with the issue of being turned on in akward situations when you really don’t want to, but the fetish is too strong. For example in work situations, with relatives and so on. How do you deal with that?


I developed a bad habit of slapping myself or shaking my head when I have those thoughts which makes it weird when people notice it and I awkwardly pass it off as a tic. I bet from outside it looks really silly.
3 years