Fat experiences

Lately at work people have been more vocal about how large I look and I'm fine with it. But it still seems a bit uncomfortable yet exciting that people have to notice my gut.

Same thing happened to me recently. I've recently gained a substantial amount and most of my friends have said something about it. It made me sort of self conscious but it also was exciting..

No one has really said anything to me, other than to offer more food...

Some will say things depending out of concern or that the genuinely like you but don't want you to suffer.

Some will say things as they were taught that fat people lack discipline, self control and deserve minimum at best..so some get into their feelings when you outshine them.

I had a coworker tell me to try to lose lbs so that I won't be like his coworker who broke a chair got injured and fighting to get workers compensation. I nodded as he spoke truth, some felt it wasn't really his business as it could be borderline EEO but just made me have a taxi hit the drive thru on my way home and block it all out overnight.