Fattening others

I hope you do, and I suspect it will go just fine. People get really wound up about the "fetish" aspect of this, but I think if you're just honest with each other about what you are attracted to (especially the societally-frowned-upon fat bits!), everything will work out very nicely.

Welcome to FF, and I hope you will let us know how it went.

He may not have a fetish, but it does sound as if he'd be, at the least, more comfortable with both of you a bit softer.

As you explore his feelings around the topic (and your own), do remember that there is a lot of variation in what people like and what turns them on and how extreme they like and all of that. (i.e. not all feedees are the same, not all feeders are the same, not all FA are feeders, not all people who like their softer body are feedees, etc)

So even if you share certain preferences, there will likely be areas where your preferences don't overlap (but it sounds like there should be spots where they will)