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I feel like this feederism community is a safe place to talk about this, and leave any offensive or rude comments out.

I’m slowly realizing that I find guys attractive, not normal skinny guys but overweight or chubby guys. I’m trying to see guys as more than that, but the truth is, I feel a similar way about girls. I love girls bodies that are round and chubby and love seeing their body and don’t really care if I see their face or privates.

Can I say I’m attracted to guys even though my catagory for guys is limited to their tummies? I imagine cuddling and feeding them irl would feel amazing, and a kiss would be lovely feeling, but those ideas aren’t what turn me on. It’s their heavy body with their gay partner or by themselves.

Again, no rude or disgusting comments, they’ll be removed

I kind of feel you, I am straight and couldn’t imagine going for a guy.
Still I kind of find the real fat ones with big moobs also sexy to some extend even could imagine feeding one.
I guess I like fat and at some point the body’s become not that far apart.

I think it is nothing wrong about it.
So maybe you are just bisexual witch is nice because you get more options 😉

Sounds like you are having problems separating fantasy from reality.
You being attracted to guys is OK but only attracted to their fat ??
What about their personality doesn't that count?
That would be like being attracted to a woman just because she has big boobs.

Sexuality is a spectrum. You don’t have to date every person you’re attracted to, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being attracted to someone, even if your attraction is limited. Also gender is a social construct so the labels of gay and straight really don’t matter, you like what you like and only you can define that for yourself, no label is going to describe a person perfectly.

Well my problem is.. : yeah ofc I can have feelings and thats the most important, ofc I like people's faces, duh.

However only chubby ppl attract me. Meaning if I were with a skinny person our sexual life would be Well.. non-existent.

I also can't get turned on any other way than fetishy things.

So basicly maybe thats just how you're wired?

I think so, and there’s nothing wrong with it. I’m no expert, it’s just my observations... it may just be identification with something you like or want in yourself. Simple example... so many straight guys get off vicariously through the guy in porn. They identify with that guy. What got me into gaining is because even though I’m gay and love all kinds of men, I particularly like fat guys and wanted to be one of them. Now I am and I love it. So maybe it’s just identifying with them. 🤷🏻‍♂️