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Misogynistic stories

Is it just me, or is there an uptick in stories on here that completely dehumanize women?

Especially pregnancy fetish content. I mean... I understand that subject is feedist-adjacent, but when dehumanization is the entire point, any elements feedists might enjoy fall by the wayside.

Also, can we just stop using the word "mommy?" "She just couldn't wait to be a mommy!" Like, unless you came out of her lady garden, just stop calling even fictional women "mommy." Unless she's actually into infantalization, in which case, you're on the wrong fetish site.
2 years

Misogynistic stories

biglunch:
How about we stop calling them mommy when they stop calling us daddy? Idk just a thought.

I’m pretty sure some women actually like the term, just like some men like the other term.

Different strokes for different folks. You’re into Hansel and gretel. If fattening up someone to use them for food (even in fantasy) isn’t objectifying them, idk what is. This is a fetus website, mind you. So I have nothing against that at all. People are into it from both sides.

No misogyny here.


You're referring to mommy/daddy in a different context. A pet name is one thing. Condescension is another. I also said nothing about objectifying.

And it certainly seems like this is a "fetus" website lately. 😄
2 years

Misogynistic stories

I want to write a slew of femdom stories but...motivation man I'm just going to get friend one day and write it All out

NGL I jump on any dominant fem story but alot of recent stores have kinda been mostly Dom FA/feeder stores which is ok but it's always some sort of birthing person feedee story I agree
2 years

Misogynistic stories

For proper context, she's referring to this story here:

fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view

In which I give a Dean Wormer-esque ZERO...POINT...ZERO f*ck if she doesn't like it. I gave the story an iconic twist in the spirit of EC Comics, hence the Weird Science banner. If you don't like it, oh well. Better speak to the manager about it, Karen.
2 years

Misogynistic stories

Prude:
birthing person


Haha, that's a hilarious term to use in this context.

You: "fuck these stories that reduce women to submissive breeders."
Also You: "women are solely defined by their ability to have children"

I have a strong pregnancy and breeding kink, but damn. Even in my bimbo/pregnancy stories, I treat women more multidimensionally than that.
2 years

Misogynistic stories

Baba Yaga:
If you don't like it, oh well. Better speak to the manager about it, Karen.


This has literally nothing to do with the entitlement and unjustified anger of a "Karen."

Regarding biglunch's assertion of "no misogyny here," I couldn't disagree more. The problem seems to be a fundamental misunderstanding of what misogyny actually means. It's denotation is the hatred, dislike or mistrust of women based on the very fact that they are women. Whether a conscious choice or not, the story in question undeniably has misogynistic undertones if not blatant overtones. The main antogonist is a woman cast as past her prime, in accordance with the societal expectation that women must remain young, beautiful, and conventionally attractive to maintain any semblence of validity. This character is simultaneously vilified for not wanting to have children and ends up being "punished" with pregnancy. Villainizing women who choose not to have kids is textbook misogyny as it frames a woman's lack of desire to procreate as inherently wrong. In relation to societal gender biases, men who don't want children are never villified in the same way. Similarly, nor are men with jobs and children ever questioned about who's home taking care of the kids or how they manage to balance their work and home lives. Ultimately, women are burdened with the expectation that they be relegated to the domestic sphere and when they're not, their competency outside the home is questioned due to their supposed duties of childrearing.

Regardless of this site's primary function as a safe place/online community for and celebration of this fetish, I think Hanselswitch's point (and forgive me if I'm wrong) is that the story peddles in societal stereotypes of women and villifies a character expressly because she exists outside the parameters of acceptable femininity and what quantifies a "proper woman."
2 years

Misogynistic stories

Gave the story a read because of this thread and I have to say: it's not unsalvageable? The misogyny is rooted in just a few lines and the tone, and it didn't need to be there to make the story work.

Comeuppance stories are common in this kink: a bratty, bitchy, or otherwise evil character becomes the victim of an enlarging transformation against their will. We love to see it. But that's the thing: the character Mrs. Mansfield is already so mean and dislikeable that the reader would have wanted to see her blimp up and suffer for it just because she's a racist landlord who abuses her working class tenants by threatening them with unlawful eviction and violating their privacy. It would still make sense to have her yell at/be mean to kids if that was portrayed as part of her just being a mean person in general, without portraying her personal aversion to motherhood as a villainizing trait. She's already a villain, you had me at "This is America, don't speak your Spanish around me" or however the line went.

As someone who's been slammed as a propagandist myself for some of my own fics (people have told me to keep my socialism out of feedist fic, etc) I get the compulsion to slide social commentary into your porno. But I think this story would be improved by not caricaturizing women for not choosing motherhood. If the author decides to rewrite, I say go for the "punish the racist capitalist who bullies the most vulnerable of us, aka children, just because she can" angle and leave the question of her bodily autonomy out of the laundry list of reasons why she deserves her punishment. That's just my constructive crit.
2 years

Misogynistic stories

Baba Yaga:
If you don't like it, oh well. Better speak to the manager about it, Karen.

junebug10:
This has literally nothing to do with the entitlement and unjustified anger of a "Karen."

Regarding biglunch's assertion of "no misogyny here," I couldn't disagree more. The problem seems to be a fundamental misunderstanding of what misogyny actually means. It's denotation is the hatred, dislike or mistrust of women based on the very fact that they are women. Whether a conscious choice or not, the story in question undeniably has misogynistic undertones if not blatant overtones. The main antogonist is a woman cast as past her prime, in accordance with the societal expectation that women must remain young, beautiful, and conventionally attractive to maintain any semblence of validity. This character is simultaneously vilified for not wanting to have children and ends up being "punished" with pregnancy. Villainizing women who choose not to have kids is textbook misogyny as it frames a woman's lack of desire to procreate as inherently wrong. In relation to societal gender biases, men who don't want children are never villified in the same way. Similarly, nor are men with jobs and children ever questioned about who's home taking care of the kids or how they manage to balance their work and home lives. Ultimately, women are burdened with the expectation that they be relegated to the domestic sphere and when they're not, their competency outside the home is questioned due to their supposed duties of childrearing.

Regardless of this site's primary function as a safe place/online community for and celebration of this fetish, I think Hanselswitch's point (and forgive me if I'm wrong) is that the story peddles in societal stereotypes of women and villifies a character expressly because she exists outside the parameters of acceptable femininity and what quantifies a "proper woman."


Thank you. My point exactly.
2 years

Misogynistic stories

stevita:
Gave the story a read because of this thread and I have to say: it's not unsalvageable? The misogyny is rooted in just a few lines and the tone, and it didn't need to be there to make the story work.

Comeuppance stories are common in this kink: a bratty, bitchy, or otherwise evil character becomes the victim of an enlarging transformation against their will. We love to see it. But that's the thing: the character Mrs. Mansfield is already so mean and dislikeable that the reader would have wanted to see her blimp up and suffer for it just because she's a racist landlord who abuses her working class tenants by threatening them with unlawful eviction and violating their privacy. It would still make sense to have her yell at/be mean to kids if that was portrayed as part of her just being a mean person in general, without portraying her personal aversion to motherhood as a villainizing trait. She's already a villain, you had me at "This is America, don't speak your Spanish around me" or however the line went.

As someone who's been slammed as a propagandist myself for some of my own fics (people have told me to keep my socialism out of feedist fic, etc) I get the compulsion to slide social commentary into your porno. But I think this story would be improved by not caricaturizing women for not choosing motherhood. If the author decides to rewrite, I say go for the "punish the racist capitalist who bullies the most vulnerable of us, aka children, just because she can" angle and leave the question of her bodily autonomy out of the laundry list of reasons why she deserves her punishment. That's just my constructive crit.


Well said and thank you. To be fair, I wasn't targeting any one story or author. However, I think some of the previous commentary only highlights my point.
2 years

Misogynistic stories

mp3:
I dont think you're being very open minded other's creative choices and thus threatening the safe space we have already come to enjoy. If reading hurts you that bad, simply dont.


You saw zero irony in using the term "safe space" while telling women to suck it up, eh? All while contributing absolutely nothing new to the discussion.

Two women spent quite a bit of time writing thoughtful explanations on the difference between "creative choice" and stories written by dudes who clearly believe women are less than human. Either you truly don't get it or you're being deliberately obtuse.
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