So, that's kinda my first post in here, and english isn't my first language at all, so be gentle, ok? Kay.
Me(21M) and my ex(21F) had a feeder feedee relashionship for 3 years. At her biggest she gained over 30 Kg (66 lbs).
We broke up last year and she started losing all the weight gained w/ me, and that's ok.
She went from 90 Kg back to around 60, what i found great, she got very self councious after our break up.
Now comes the "bad" part. I think that i've found some of those pounds she lost. When we splitted up i was kinda fit (around 60 kg too, with some muscle and all). At the start I was feeling a little sad about it, but as time passed I, bizzarelly, started to... enjoy it(?).
Thinking that as she lost the weight that i helped her putting, it started to come at me...
I always thought about the whole Mutual Gaining thing, but when i was already with someone... But feeling a little softer in some parts is kinda good.
Just wanted to share those thoughts, and hear a little out here.
TL;DR: She broke up with me, started losing weight and I started gaining it.
Me(21M) and my ex(21F) had a feeder feedee relashionship for 3 years. At her biggest she gained over 30 Kg (66 lbs).
We broke up last year and she started losing all the weight gained w/ me, and that's ok.
She went from 90 Kg back to around 60, what i found great, she got very self councious after our break up.
Now comes the "bad" part. I think that i've found some of those pounds she lost. When we splitted up i was kinda fit (around 60 kg too, with some muscle and all). At the start I was feeling a little sad about it, but as time passed I, bizzarelly, started to... enjoy it(?).
Thinking that as she lost the weight that i helped her putting, it started to come at me...
I always thought about the whole Mutual Gaining thing, but when i was already with someone... But feeling a little softer in some parts is kinda good.
Just wanted to share those thoughts, and hear a little out here.
TL;DR: She broke up with me, started losing weight and I started gaining it.
2 years