Ditzy:Never got into the fat shaming thing.
I guess its because I don't have a fat fetish and being fat isn't a fantasy.
If all of you do like it then thats OK too.
Whatever floats your boat.
i'm not a fan of fat shaming or teasing either. it's a huge turn off for me.
that said, i do like it when someone i've already established a connection with uses things like "big girl" and calls me fat and huge in private as a way of expressing appreciation, admiration and endearment for me and my body. it's all about the familiarity and the tone and intent behind it for me.