Alexander123:
Hey,
I've been struggeling with the desire to gain weight and get fat, but kinda afraid of doing so.
I fear getting commented on especially by my parents.
But I do really feel like i wanna gain.
For me I've known that I was into Bigger girls since I was very young. I also had a silent desire to gIn myself. But fear of being jugded always held me back.
Can someone help we with this fear, or tell me how it went for them and how you delt with that?
Hey,
I've been struggeling with the desire to gain weight and get fat, but kinda afraid of doing so.
I fear getting commented on especially by my parents.
But I do really feel like i wanna gain.
For me I've known that I was into Bigger girls since I was very young. I also had a silent desire to gIn myself. But fear of being jugded always held me back.
Can someone help we with this fear, or tell me how it went for them and how you delt with that?
I understand where you're coming from. I had that fear as well. Getting my own apartment helped me very much. It gave me my own space to grow, without worrying about what my parents would say.
Of course, people might still say something about my weight, but I did not need to listen to it every day.
As I gained weight, some people were shocked at how big I had become. They made comments about it, but they eventually got over it. As I lived my life and changed jobs, my new co-workers did not have any memories of me being skinny. They just knew that I was fat the entire time that we worked together.
I know gaining weight can be scary, but I got used to being fat, and so did other people around me. Eventually, my being fat just became normal.
If you'd like, try gaining 9 to 13 kg. It should be just enough weight for other people to notice and say something. Then just stay at that weight for a while, and see if other people eventually stop mentioning your weight.
You might notice that they get used to your new weight. If that happens, you'll have a better understanding of what the experience will be like. Then you can keep gaining, knowing that other people will eventually get used to your larger size. I hope this helps.
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