Fatpeter:
This sounds like a very similar situation to my own. My wife got up to around 215 after our second child. This was the heaviest she had ever been. She lost about 60 pounds, which I absolutely hated. The obsessive dieting more so than anything. It killed our sex life. After 2 or 3 years, the weight started creeping back on slowly. That’s when I came out and told her about my fetish. She is definitely not so worried about gaining weight now. Having said that I haven’t been able to get her to purposely gain or force feed her like I’d like. I’ve found a more subtle approach works best. Showing an interest in cooking with her, filling the house with fattening snacks and chocolate etc. Even willing to gain a little weight myself seems to rub off on her. I want her to weigh herself again, but I’m a little worried about her reacting badly to it. I know she is back up over 200, but by how much I don’t know. So to answer your question, I find a subtle approach has worked best for me
Subtle is the ticket for sure in my case with my wife!
Did you find that as you gained along with her she not only was willing to keep gaining herself, but did you find that she was extremely sexed in the bedroom because of your gain as well?
