Extreme obesity

This is the ghost off r/dieingtobefat

Dying is one thing, but what would really suck is just being immobile and in constant pain, and unable to take care of your bathroom needs.

I deal with the exact opposite. My wife is pretty big, about 300lbs and while I'm only about 195ish now. We are trying for me to be about the same. But, we both worry about health in general. I have a chronic illness that has resulted in being disabled. So, while we love gaining and being on the bigger side.we are also always making sure our health is ok. Its also why 300lbs is basically our size limit. I just find it interesting how people can have similar interests, in this case weight gain. But have almost opposite views on it at the same time . To each their own though.