I don't think the fetish is the issue. People with all kinds of fetishes and kinks find love all the time.
The problem I'm seeing is how people approach the fetish. Mind you, not everyone on this site is like this. A lot of you are perfectly lovely. Still, there is a sizable chunk of people who do not know how to interact with others.
I've personally dealt with people who are terrible conversationalists, too pushy, do not respect boundaries, do not listen, are manipulative, etc. So, when I interact with others, my guard is up. Add to the fact that a lot of us have our own personal traumas? Oy vey
The problem I'm seeing is how people approach the fetish. Mind you, not everyone on this site is like this. A lot of you are perfectly lovely. Still, there is a sizable chunk of people who do not know how to interact with others.
I've personally dealt with people who are terrible conversationalists, too pushy, do not respect boundaries, do not listen, are manipulative, etc. So, when I interact with others, my guard is up. Add to the fact that a lot of us have our own personal traumas? Oy vey
2 years