So I’ve personally grown up in a very fatphobic environment where fat people were viewed as disgusting. I realized how people around me felt about fat people and I began to feel so much shame around wanting to be fat and liking fat people. I spent my whole life hating myself because of something I couldn’t control. I’d fixate on how I could fix myself for hours for the first couple years after I realized I was a feeder and feedee. I would tell myself stuff like it’s ok to like fat people you just can’t be into their stomach. I hated my sexuality so much I developed anorexic behaviors as a way to rid myself of what I deemed wrong. I also was so scared people in my daily life would find out I was “disgusting” that I decided to full on laugh at fat people and make horrible comments about them. I’m finally starting to break my habit of saying fatphobic knee jerk comments and working on my internalized fatphobia. I am working to view people of all genders and weights as attractive as what I personally see them as and not let society dictate who I should think is or is not attractive. It’s just hard. I am so tired of hating myself.
Has anyone here gone through a similar experience in dealing with fatphobia mixed with their sexuality?
Has anyone here gone through a similar experience in dealing with fatphobia mixed with their sexuality?
2 years