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I mean. I am. But I'm also something of a sadist. So there's that.

And we both know you aren't having fun. You're coping. You are trying to save face. We both know it's not working.

And at the end of the day, I can go to sleep knowing that people enjoy being around me. The same cannot be said of you.

And now that the horse has been beaten to death, I shall end it here.

It always amazes me when guys (and it seems to be exclusively guys who do this) lose perspective and they don't see how absolutely obvious to *everyone* that this is what they are doing, as is the case on this thread.

Guys: Learn when to just walk away. Really. It is the simplest, most valuable lesson in growing up you can learn (still applicable for all ages, it seems) .

You don't understand why I still come here to mast*rbate? Well... because I'm a fetishist. I'm obsessed with (male) weightgain, fatness... I love to have new fantasies through stories, pictures, chatting... I like to make compliments to sexy fat men on here. It's part of my sexuality.
Also I'm in a non-exclusive relationship. But I think even for women who are in an exclusive relationship it's ok to come here, to have fantasies... almost everyone still have fantasies, mast*rbate and watch porn while in a relationship. It's not like cheating. I can't get why it bothers you so much.

Hoping you can find joy, someone classy and more in tune with your interests than those you've come across. I do think the OP is venting as the attention doesn't compare as it's a much smaller pool. Easier for some to accept than others.

...I am sincerely looking for a real friend, and real relationship....life is too short to play around...

The real problem is people having conflicting expectations about what this website is for.

If you go to the front page of FantasyFeeder and scroll to the bottom you'll find that the website promotes itself as "Indulge your fat fantasies", "BBW dating" (apparently BHM don't exist...), and "Plus-size social". Or in simpler terms: fetish, romance, and friendship.

I think the OP of this thread likely falls in to the "romance" category, and was (if you're capable of empathy) understandably frustrated when he finally realised that the majority of FantasyFeeder users are only interested in the "Fantasy" aspect, who indeed "only come here to masturbate", who would never actually date an obese person in real life because of the social stigma, and his dreams of romance are likely to go unfulfilled.

While the OP could have been more tactful instead of posting a rant, I don't think he's wrong in a lot of what he said because it's also been my experience with FantasyFeeder. Most of the FFAs I've chatted to aren't interested in getting to know the human being, and just want a caricature of a fat person who will tell them that they've already eaten four cakes today and can't wait to eat a fifth, so they can use it as masturbation fodder.

And you know what? That's fine! It's their fetish, and their fetish is why this website exists. But it's not the only reason this website exists (according to it's own marketing), and both groups need to accept that the other has just as much right to be here as they do.

Tbh, if his issue was just "I'm frustrated because I want an Ffa/feeder girlfriend and every women I've talked to has made me feel like a piece of meet," no one would have cared. I believe most people would have been kind to him.

No, the issue is that he went into incel territory, and got dogpiled for it.

Honestly I don't think that's a bad thing. Its like you aren't happy that you are making someone else "Happy" as well.

As an ace, I'm all up for that. If theres a way both of us can enjoy something together in our own way then its only good!

Any women that wants to masturbate over me can go right ahead, it would make me feel amazing.knowing that she's enjoying me is the best feeling ever. Whether its me getting fatter, me making her fat or her getting knocked up one night after we meet in the line at McDonalds. What ever she wants its her fantasy and she can live that moment

I could not agree more. The thought of a woman masturbating while she thinks of me, the thought of her getting turned on by my fatness, the desire she might have to feed and fatten me; all of that would make me so happy and bring a smile to my face.